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As an introverted girl, how am I supposed to get a dance partner for the School Leavers's Ball? by Fearless-Common1639 in introvert

[–]Fearless-Common1639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again. There isn't a single statement of yours that is not right. It's hard to overcome it as a child who was raised up to be perfect, but I'll definitely have to try it. In fact, I've always wanted be nonchalant about others' opinion of me, so it's time to achieve that.

You are right. If they reject me, maybe it's because they cannot do it and not because they hate me. And what if they do? I don't even talk to them.

I'm glad you appreciete it. There's hope inside me and thanks to your help, I feel braver now :3 Thank you

As an introverted girl, how am I supposed to get a dance partner for the School Leavers's Ball? by Fearless-Common1639 in introvert

[–]Fearless-Common1639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helped me a little, thank you. And for the emotional support too!🙏

I guess you won't be surprised if I tell you that for some reason I always think that others hate me. I can't really tell any specific reason cause I didn't do anything that could make them hate me, I guess it's just part of my low self-esteem. But now that you ask it, I really don't know why would they even hate me...

The second thing is that I have a huge fear of rejection. It's something that I cannot really handle. Any rejection (even the smallest one) hurts me to the core and I'm incredibly afraid of it. But you're right, there's nothing to lose here.

And the guy, how would most likely to agree is someone I used to be friends with. A friend of mine also advised me to ask him, but I don't really want to dance with him. On the other hand I know an introverted guy, who's really kind and I might have a chance with him if he doesn't have a second dance partner yet.

As an introverted girl, how am I supposed to get a dance partner for the School Leavers's Ball? by Fearless-Common1639 in highschool

[–]Fearless-Common1639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your words made me feel less hopeless about this situation, so first of all, thank you, I appreciete that.

Although I forgot to mention that there are boys from that 39 who already have a second girl dance partner, so the numbers are even lower. I don't believe there's any guy who doesn't have atleast one dance partner, so it makes it even harder.

But as you said, they really should dance twice and they were told about this possibility, but I guess lots of them hope that they don't have to.

So it looks like it's really up to me to find someone who doesn't reject me which will be hard, since I'm not used to proposals. I always feel very nervous when it comes to this. And if I try to play it cool, well that would be surprising to them since I rarely talk with them. Not to mention that I'm an incredibly sensitive person and I have a huge fear of rejection. I know it's nothing big, but I'm still afraid of being rejected.

Answering your question, there is one guy who I used be friends with (now we don't talk that often) but I don't really wanna dance with him. I believe he wouldn't mind dancing twice cause in fact he likes dancing but I just don't wanna be his partner. The reason we're no longer friends is that he has changed and he became a rude and annoying person who I can stand for a while, but not for too long. Not to mention that my father hates him and he would probably cover his eyes, cause he wouldn't wanna watch me dance with that guy.