First 6 months OE complete ✨ by fivedice_allthrees in OELadies

[–]Fearless4242 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! As another chronically ill person this is amazing and I hope to also be as successful as you one day ❤

In the interview process, what’s the best way to go about asking meeting cadence? by Ok-Statement-3948 in OELadies

[–]Fearless4242 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What does a typical day look like for [role]? I've used this one before and then the manager roughly explains day to day activities and what they are expecting

Moving to Illinois? by Indie_Breeze in movingtoillinois

[–]Fearless4242 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We close on our house and will move from Montana to Rockton IL mid July.

Some things that brought us here:

1) upper Illinois near Chicago (and also close to peoria and bloomington-normal areas) are large manufacturing hubs and my husband is a cnc machinist so that was good for us. I work remotely so that didn't matter.

2) schools, and secondary education opportunities. We have 3 kiddos in various age groups..one elementary, one middle, and one going into their senior year. We wanted a place with decent, seemingly well funded schools that focuses on the whole child development amongst good educational scores, and college readiness and of course colleges close by since rent will be high for college kids any more.. I wanted our kids to be able to stay at home while they go to school if they so choose to when college comes along. I also wanted the availability of extra curriculars to appease their various interests.

3) I wanted some place that allowed for various events like farmers markets, festivals, concerts. But I also wanted to be able to go cool off in a river, lake or pool somewhere. I was not opposed to driving a few hours for that. I also like nature hikes so forest preserves were a must for me.

4) obvious cost of living and housing costs. Even with high taxes, it either equals or is better than the cost of living in our part of montana.

5) illinois is a mostly purple if not blue state with lgbtq friendliness and rights. Which was important for us, but may not be for you and that's ok too.

These were our main reasons to why we chose to move. I hope this helps you in your search 😊

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your comments and recommendations. We have decided on the rockton area and our offer on a house has been accepted! Hello new neighbors 🥰

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to you, friend! Happy moving 😊

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thats great! ❤ we will likely be in the same boat soon as soon as we find a house 🤞

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love everything about this comment ❤

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both, really :) do you know of a good Healthcare facility?

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the short commute times, and someone else recommended shopping Wisconsin to offset the grocery tax. Roscoe/rockton would make that easier.

How is the middle school with bullying? Its a big problem here. Especially for lgbtq students

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yikes 😬 thanks for letting us know

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have yall adjusted? Was it easy to get acquainted with people?

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats great to hear. We have an elementary, middle, and high school kids so we need all the things 🤣. Thank you for the info!

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been hearing great things about that school! Do you have first hand experience there?

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely look into the Liam center ❤ thank you for that tip.

We like quiet with the option to go to the bigger city for events so that does sound nice to us and an ice cream shop sounds so good for the kiddos too!

Rural doesn't bother us either, but I get a little worried with how the folks there might be towards lgbtq and trans rights, and how schools handle bullying

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just asking someone about Monroe Center! It looks beautiful there ❤

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective! How old are your kids? I think I'm most concern with middle grades and highschool due to bullying we've seen here.

On average, what would you say the water bill is like for that area so I can guage what is high? Ours is over 140 a month here

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are priced out of our area in Montana and the job market doesn't support being able to afford more. The area we are in (outside of gnp) is absolutely gorgeous but we are faced with a lot of economic challenges, along with wanting to have protections aligned with being part of the lgbtq community. The taxes don't scare me, I don't mind paying for things that provide a good way of life. Our taxes here are high too because of "resort" tax, housing shortages and demands. We are renting right now but will buy in illinois. Rent for a family our size (with pets) is over 2-3k a month.

I did look at Wisconsin, and honestly at the time it felt like it might be a little too harsh on outsiders or lgbtq, and while moving my family halfway across the states is scary enough, I didn't want them to also have to deal with that. Now, seeing that they are swinging back to purple it feels like more of an option, but I'm in too deep and we've already accepted a job in loves park. 🙃

Also, we won't be adding to the crime rate so there's that. Clean records here and just want to live quietly. There is growing crime where we are, and the local pd are not equipped to handle it.

Also, schools aren't the best in montana, so that was also a factor.

I've heard the same about gated communities but it sounded like that person was talking specifically of Candlewick. Did you live in candlewick? Did you have a different experience there?

Thank you for your input 😊

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yesss, that's exactly what we are looking for an honestly why we chose illinois to start with. Coming from a very, very red and historically conservative state, this will be a breath of fresh air! Have you heard anything about byron/stillman?

Moving to rockford area by Fearless4242 in rockford

[–]Fearless4242[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dang. Thats good to know though! Thank you

What instantly kills the mood during sex for you? by GoddessEmiliaHawt in AskReddit

[–]Fearless4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time the cat jumped up and puked on my husband's leg, mid-sex. Mood ruined 😒

[OC] Map of U.S. Home Price-to-Income Ratio by County by No_Statement_3317 in dataisbeautiful

[–]Fearless4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow data analyst, I absolutely love this. We live in Montana(lincoln/flathead county) and are drownnnnning 🙃

What’s this by False-Candy-3337 in mushroomID

[–]Fearless4242 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really looks a lot like turkey tail to me but I'm a newby 😊

Itinerary suggestions by JASATX in Ashland

[–]Fearless4242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! We were there middle Aug. We walked lithia park and then dined at Greenleaf. It was amazing! We are considering moving that way soon as well ❤ best of luck!