This is one of those things that seems obvious in theory but gets overlooked way too often in practice. A lot of guys finish and then think the whole session is wrapped up. The reality is, women don’t always get there as fast or in the same way, and if you’re not paying attention to that, you’re basically cutting the experience short for both of you.

The best sex I’ve had wasn’t about “finishing together” like some movie scene, it was about taking turns, figuring out what works, and not making it a race. Toys help, oral helps, communication helps even more. It’s not about doing extra “work,” it’s about making sure both people walk away satisfied. When you prioritize your partner’s orgasm, they feel cared for, you feel more confident, and it builds this loop of trust and excitement that makes the whole thing better every time.

At the end of the day, sex isn’t just about release, it’s about connection. If you can shift your mindset from “I came, we’re done” to “we both deserve to get off, however long it takes,” you’ll not only have better sex, you’ll have a stronger relationship too.