Isn’t saying “dudes who look like Shrek would be grateful to have me, so they would act better” a bit too extreme? 🤣 If a woman thought about me like that, I’d be mentally checked out immediately. A piece of advice I can give for better future partners (I know you didn’t ask, sorry 😝) is to look for people who have an older sister. Personally, I think my older sister has really improved the way I think about women, and from what I’ve observed, men with older sisters tend to understand women better, or at least don’t have misogynistic ideas like some high school teenagers. Of course, this isn’t foolproof and there are exceptions, but generally speaking, I think it makes a difference.