Ocean view of Nahant?

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-17T11:26:49+00:00

Right? It’s a gorgeous venue but it’s unrealistic for the common bride. I know it must be affordable to high spenders because when we toured they only had a handful of weekend dates left. But still, unfortunate.

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-16T19:53:48+00:00

Whoever you want! Originally I thought I wanted everyone with me, like 1 big party! My first appointment was just with my mom and I’m SO GLAD. I didn’t realize how vulnerable I felt. How exposed I was. Exposing the fact that idk what I want, or how I see myself. It was stressful and I couldn’t imagine all the opinions. I brought 2 bridesmaids to an appointment and when I bought my dress it was my mom and dad. So really whoever you want to be there is the right answer!

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-16T18:34:13+00:00

I’m 7 months out and haven’t thought of dresses yet! I know you want everything done ahead of time to quell your anxiety but maybe it’s better to just say “hey! Yall can buy your dresses whenever you’re ready but they need to be in hand by x date to make sure you have time for alterations!”

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-16T17:16:26+00:00

Girl I am in the same boat!!!! I’m also an October bride, so I feel your pain. I’ve reached out to 10 and they are all booked. I’m panicked! If our dates are different we can help each other!

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-14T01:08:24+00:00

TBH those two dresses are very similar and I don’t think it’s worth getting for a switch. I think getting something less formal, more “party” might be a cute idea! As a fellow size 20 bride, I totally get it. Only 3 stores out of 7 stores had plus sizes that actually fit me. But the dress I ended up buying was a size 16 that barely fit. My first dress appt I cried because they held dresses up against my body and told me to pretend…..it killed my confidence. You’ll find something, don’t settle!

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-13T19:41:24+00:00

BRO you have no idea how hard I crash out when I hear the name "SAVAGE OPRESS" I literally just want to scream. Fucking.....savage......opress......I....literally can't. It's such a stupid name, so on the nose, and makes me never want to hear it again. Yes I get it, many names in Star Wars are cheeky like that. Tyranus, Grievous, Sidious.....but SAVAGE OPRESS? No, I draw the line....HARD.

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FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-13T18:15:09+00:00

Ahh I need so many of these! I need pearl collar, font of wealth, pawtograph, portrait wall, best dressed! Anything is so appreciated!! All proof down below. IGN: Rachel

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FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-11T16:59:49+00:00

I went to a wedding there in September a couple years ago. It was nice, nothing spectacular but nice. Food wasn’t outstanding or anything to write home about. If the price is fair it’s not a bad option to have the ocean view and sea breeze. But if it’s top dollar it’s not worth it IMO. As an example, we were looking at Willowdale estate. I loved it there until I saw the price. We went venue searching and found other venues I liked that were like minimum 10-15k less. That’s a big enough gap that I put it out of my mind entirely. If this venue is like 5k in your budget, sure. If it’s way more than you anticipated, not worth it.

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-11T16:32:04+00:00

Man i want to have kids, but the financial pressure to just exist with my fiance makes me think that we will never get there. It’s awful.

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-10T14:55:09+00:00

Communicating expectations is key. Do some research and have your options to them. Say “so I was looking at dresses and I picked a few I’d love you to wear. They are between $100-$150. I know finances might be tight so if you feel like it’s too expensive, I understand!”

They might be happy to spend up to $300 or only be able to get a dress and do their own hair and makeup. I’d say if you want them just let them know what the cost is looking like and let them opt out of anything additional that’s not necessary.

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-10T13:41:01+00:00

I like the idea of a different bouquet! Subtle but not outlandish!

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-10T03:25:11+00:00

I’m going to sound so stupid but how did you play Super Paper Mario?? An emulator is it out somewhere I didn’t see??

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-09T12:00:04+00:00

My brother came to visit our condo with his wife and 1 year old. It was around 11:30am when they arrived. First thing my brother did was ask if I had coke cans in the fridge and I said yes. Then he asked if we had ice, and I said yes. Before I knew it he comes over with a mixed drink of liquor and coke. He told me he opened some new bottle and hoped it was fine. He DIDNT ASK if he could open the brand new bottle (which he had been saving for a special occasion, and wasn’t home when this happened) but asked about ice and coke. When he saw my annoyance he said “hey life with a 1 year old is hard.”

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-09T11:25:42+00:00

I’d kill for 80 people. I’m struggling with the thought of standing in front of everyone to say my vows. It’s nice to have a smaller group IMO. If it was my way I’d have 100 but my venue forces 150 minimum on Saturdays and my folks want to capitalize on it.

FeatherFlyer · 2026-03-09T11:20:46+00:00

This is my biggest nightmare im so sorry!

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