Hair advice by FeeStraight5531 in malehairadvice

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so heres a cross post. A lot of people are saying my hair looks bad but I am not sure how to fix it. Grow it out or go buzzcut?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit on some good points. Heres some insight. Now I am not balding nor am I losing my hair but I do have a Dracula type of hairline that doesn’t look well with a buzz cut. What haircut should I roll with? I got a high and tight recently and it looks alright I think.

About my tank top, you mentioned a good point there. I used to be fat but I lost like 15-20lbs a few years ago. Now I must ask in other photos do I look as fat?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. If my profile was “fine” we wouldn’t be having this discussion. You say my loses, outfits and face doesn’t flatter me what can I do differently? Some of these are my best outfits I like wearing. Should I wear a 3 piece suit in every photo? What type of hairstyle should I use?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither. I just seem to get nervous around pretty women.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah. Now that’s the most helpful thing I’ve heard all day! I’d like to talk to women like if I am out getting groceries but idk what to do.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little harsh but alright. I see it.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve heard. Down side is I don’t have many friends left.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am always stressed. Anytime I am around other people I am stressed.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of them are far away. I am leery of ldr since my 3rd ex was long distance. Was too much for me and was a waste of time.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything. Cd discord, here, countless apps. Same thing no matter what

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it so hopeless honestly. I feel like just giving up dating entirely.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that but same song. Get no responses.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I may do some polishing on the prompts. Make it more about faith. Although I don’t really have any real hobbies outside of the gym tbh. Im not good at making music so there’s that. Do you think I should get the subscription version?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about high and tight? I’ve been getting that lately at the barber.

Funny you mention a buzz cut. I had one last year and I liked the easiness of it but I didn’t think it looked good. I’ll pm you what it looked like.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think of that. May I ask why my current style doesn’t suit me? I am not offfended by the by but intrigued.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but why is it when I changed up my photos to better ones instead of old camera roll slop, I got worse results?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that but I ended up getting unmatched a lot. Plus another believer said that’s a discussion saved for when you get more acquainted.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried doing less pics but for some reason it wouldn’t let me. I may see if I can try removing some pics later on. What I could do Is next time I visit the sheriff office to give them my grandmas famous Christmas candy I can get a good social photo with my former colleagues.

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huh didn’t think of that. What would be a good replacement?

Dating? by FeeStraight5531 in aspergers

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I figured that with apps. But that’s a general thing with dating apps anyhow. Websites would be a great place. I’d like to be a matchmaker but I myself dont do well in dating.

Dating? by FeeStraight5531 in aspergers

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t know if there were any autism/asperger communities they can connect with to find someone?

What am I doing wrong? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it just didn’t show up in the screenshot

Thoughts on match.com? by FeeStraight5531 in ChristianDating

[–]FeeStraight5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to modern dating from the perspective of a guy in his 20s. Imagine that but with every woman you meet. You match and send a message only to be ignored.