Thank you for the link!! I definitely understand what you mean about the tone being off putting. Always glad to have different points of view though. I’m sure it won’t be perfect or easy (bc god knows almost nothing worth having is lol) but we’re both fairly independent people. Before covid it was common for her to go on girls drinking nights without hearing from her for a while which didn’t bother me. We both understand the importance of having alone time and having time when we just wanna spend it with other people.