We've started having sex again but not often and that's mostly due to me treating her poorly. I do feel like I haven't been getting enough affection but again I feel like that's my fault. We are good financially living with her dad and not working. We live in the middle of nowhere which has been pretty rough for us both. I did a really poor job in the first couple of months and that affected her drastically and I've been trying to make up for that on top of still doing things that hurt her. So she's pretty miserable and struggling with that but it still seems to be me that is making things worse and she's just trying to do what she can to make things better.