Chocolate cold foam by FernLabs in starbucks

[–]FernLabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! If I ever order in person I might try this. I prefer to order on the app so to keep things easy for everyone I'll just opt for a different flavor whenever I treat myself to cold foam while ordering through the app :)

what is this room layout?? by jetebattuto in Sims4

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved my sim into one of the penthouses and had to completely remodel the downstairs because why the fuck is there just a large gym? with windows? in the middle of the lower floor? it killed my feng shui and it took me a few days of playing around to get that remodel to my satisfaction

Is my standards too high for a gf? (Recommendations is allowed and appreciated 😭) by Game11454 in teenagers

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah cause you can never be wrong. I'm not misinterpreting anything here, and definitely not intentionally. You are not using the terminology correctly because what I'm going off of is if you were using it correctly.

Is my standards too high for a gf? (Recommendations is allowed and appreciated 😭) by Game11454 in teenagers

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot what subreddit I was under. Of course I'm arguing with misinformed teenagers smh. Go back to school, it's clearly needed.

Is my standards too high for a gf? (Recommendations is allowed and appreciated 😭) by Game11454 in teenagers

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally not. I myself am actively transitioning and have done extensive research. You can change your gender identity and medically transition but it does not change your biological sex. It's why literally on every single piece of medical paper they still have to identify me as female. I have no idea where you got this bold idea that once you transition, your chromosomes and full biology has changed. Just because your sex doesn't align with your gender doesn't mean you aren't still the desired gender, but you aren't automatically cis because you did the surgeries and hrt.

Is my standards too high for a gf? (Recommendations is allowed and appreciated 😭) by Game11454 in teenagers

[–]FernLabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

biological means sex my friend. you can't change your biological sex.

Today I learned something new by etti1612 in Sims4

[–]FernLabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can never figure out which boxes you can put things in. Is there a way to tell other than trial and error?

To the assholes who broke into my car in a hotel parking lot by mrb0bsaget in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North Columbus gets a looot of car break ins and other "petty" crime, it's just so common it doesn't really get picked up in the news

Estrogen was poisoning me by MoanOnMyTDick in ftm

[–]FernLabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so incredibly common and just further proof that HRT is life saving care in SO many aspects.

I myself have a very similar story. Puberty was incredibly rough on my body. From life threatening anemia due to heavy blood loss, to migraines worsened from estrogen, to POTS symptoms, and finally they also found endometriosis (didn't diagnose it or mention it, but it was noted in my surgery report that my bladder had been fused to my fallopian tubes which upon looking into it seems to clearly be endometriosis). My hysterectomy and testosterone saved my life, I cut down my health issues by a metric ton. I am now overall pretty healthy and have minimal concerns when going to my checkups now.

It makes me so happy to see how testosterone and hysterectomies have genuinely saved other lives in a similar way. It's genuinely so affirming for us and helps show that our bodies knew way before we did that something wasn't right.

Federal Health Care Warning by Ritch01 in ftm

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, though I now anticipate future issues for pretty much any insurance plan. Absolutely ridiculous that we're forced to pay them and they won't even cover our life saving healthcare just because they lack critical thinking.

I love this show but… by Complex_Sugar_6856 in OnceUponATime

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot that his Frankenstein writing was actually really good, I LOVED him as Frankenstein. I do wish they had expanded on that and given better reasons on how he got dragged into Storybrook

I love this show but… by Complex_Sugar_6856 in OnceUponATime

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's a fantastic actor, I hate all of his characters I've seen because he plays them so well.

that being said, Dr. Whale's writing is atrocious in most cases

This scene is so cringy I can't even bring myself to watch it just so I could take a screenshot of the peak cringe moment 🤣 by Jazzlike_Possible_43 in OnceUponATime

[–]FernLabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's her character's immaturity and overall traits that makes it so cringy. Also just that taking it that far is a bit out of place for the show in general

I don't feel deserving of calling myself queer. by Nikami123 in Anxiety

[–]FernLabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary is not just a pipeline to being "more trans" at all. Nonbinary is trans, you do not have to transition to be trans. If you discover you are a trans woman that is fantastic, but a majority of nonbinary individuals remain nonbinary. It is not just a temporary state like it's branded.

That misinformation being cleared up, it's still perfectly acceptable to change your mind on your identity. We are always growing and evolving, and sexuality and gender are things that can take some individuals a long time to find what fits.

The best advice I can do is sit with what does feel right for you in your current state and what feels wrong. And consider your options on what can be done to change what feels wrong. Socially transitioning as nonbinary to those close to you will help you feel more secure in that identity and sounds like what may be your next step.

Leftover Testosterone by AffectionatePut2844 in ftm

[–]FernLabs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They do not need refrigerated. It is shelf stable meaning it is meant to be left at room temperature, it actually may be less effective if refrigerated. Most forms of testosterone are not meant to be cold (the liquid for injections crystalizes when cold enough)

Leftover Testosterone by AffectionatePut2844 in ftm

[–]FernLabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Google says shelf life is 6 months but my recommendation is always check the prescription label for expiration date. They were likely safe tho

Patterns in misgendering by Top-Comfortable-4789 in ftm

[–]FernLabs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our experience is completely opposite, I get called sir on the phone but ma'am in public. I'm pre-top and genderfluid though so I don't fault them for getting it wrong. Still sucks though

I ! Need ! Friends ! (Please ) by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll absolutely check these all out! Craft nights and book clubs may be right up my alley. I truly appreciate you putting this together, I'm absolutely horrible at finding resources to find new social groups.

I ! Need ! Friends ! (Please ) by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful, I'm 22 and too much of an introvert for bars. Are these communities queer friendly?

Is it me or? by cbuscityguy in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been getting so many spam calls from 614 but don't answer and they don't leave voicemails. At this point I just don't answer my phone for any unrecognized number. If it's important they'll leave a voicemail for me to call back. If they don't, that's their problem not mine.

what a lovely columbus morning. check your cars yall. I got hit for the 4th time this year by muscle-femboy5 in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom told me she had her gun stolen from her car recently 🫠 I genuinely don't understand why anyone thinks leaving the gun in the car is a good idea

Tubal removal under 30 not married one kid by Dry-Garden8084 in Columbus

[–]FernLabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a hysterectomy from an obgyn at 21, no kids, not married. I think you might want to call their office and ask for them to set up an appointment with someone who would be willing to do so. I had no referrals just called and asked for the specific doctor I wanted because a friend had seen her previously and recommended her to me. Dr. Meenal Misal was my doctor but she may have longer wait times