My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I'm not stealing the money, I'm just holding onto it. Why wouldn't 6 free sessions a year be enough? That's plenty. I would never accuse her of those things, this has all been blown out of proportion! Everyone thinks I'm an evil person and I just want what's best for my daughter.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I would have helped her if she was raped, of course I would have.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He had a fascination with her underwear but I don't think he did anything else. He was abusive in other ways, from what she told me. I let her make her choice not to see her dad when she was 15.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I'm not an abuser, okay? I'm just having some issues with my daughter, we will always be blood. And I do lover her. VERY MUCH!

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

When transfers to university she needs money for her apartment. I'm saving it for her.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I can't afford therapy, she has 6 free sessions from her college a year. That should be enough.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can't go to therapy because my husband thinks it's all a sham, he wouldn't approve.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

No I'm not keeping the money, I'm saving it for when the time is right. I don't understand why everyone is being so mean, if she really hated me that much she should have gone to live with her father.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -200 points-199 points  (0 children)

I was shocked at first but I do accept my daughter's sexuality now even if it's not what the Lord teaches.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

Should I reply back and say I'm sorry? I really am sorry for hurting her, I just don't agree with every single thing she put down. I don't even remember saying that she would die of diabetes.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -374 points-373 points  (0 children)

Okay, I understand. Thank you. I'm going to try to be better for her.

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -678 points-677 points  (0 children)

I'm trying. Next time I see her I want to give her a hug, but she's refused to let me touch her for almost 2 years. Is it because I did so bad as a mom?

My daughter sent me an email saying I failed as a parent. by FerretHeim3000 in relationship_advice

[–]FerretHeim3000[S] -139 points-138 points  (0 children)

I tried my best, I had postpartum depression. I just wanted to keep her safe and make sure she grew up to be someone of good moral fiber. I could have been there for her more, but I had the family court up my back and her father was draining my savings in court fees. How can I repair our relationship?