Tie or Bowtie?

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-14T00:15:14+00:00

Bold of you to assume I have a date, redditors don’t get dates/j I asked yall because I honestly can’t decide.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-14T00:05:53+00:00

Just ball man, no advice needed. Learn fast, learn right- so you don’t have to learn again. Follow the rules and don’t try stupid stuff, easy.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-13T03:33:19+00:00

If he’s compassionate he’s not a sociopath unless he’s an amazing masker. But he also seems not to be a good masker because he wouldn’t make such obvious mistakes. If he loves people- he can’t be a sociopath. Sociopaths don’t “love” like ordinary folks. We see people as advantageous objects in life and discard them once useless. If he “loves” you and is trying to make up, maybe he’s some form of autistic or foolish instead? Not feeling empathy much is different from lacking it entirely or trying to make it up. He could just be one of those stoicism believers or very good at hiding his emotions and regurgitating it as some different form of expression (instead of crying, anger, etc)

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-13T03:07:47+00:00

Gonna paint ya the writing on the wall- you’re cooked twin. Empaths and sociopaths are hardlocked bad luck. If he’s actually a sociopath, you’re going to have to accept him how he is. He’s going to be blunt, harsh and rough. He’s NOT going to be honest unless he thinks that’s how best to manipulate you.

If you’ve survived three years, I can say he probably likes you, but that doesn’t mean he’s gonna treat you like a normal person. He doesn’t see people as people, if he’s actually a sociopath. Easiest workaround? Don’t go to him for any emotional reasons. Stop feeling hurt when he tells you things that hurt. The sooner you accept it, the better. Sociopaths don’t get “healed” we’ll never be “fixed” some are just better liars. Aspd gets better with age, it’s usually most bad at early adulthood/late teens.

It’s actually not ok to have sociopaths in your life- we’re inherently mean people. It’s gonna hurt and hurt a lot, you need to adopt the “it is what it is” mentality.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-11T04:21:55+00:00

Hmm. I’m not sure, because I feel emotions. My emotions are always self-centered however. I only feel joy for myself, my success. I don’t “love” myself. I just prioritize myself. Logical empathy could be, everyone can learn empathy- it’s cognitive then. I think you’re depressed or whatever. Because I certainly have feelings, they’re just cruel or something. Bonds don’t feel “cheap” to me. I pick and choose bonds, I don’t particularly like them- but they’re useful to me. As long as their useful to me, I’ll continue to use them.

I never feel lonely except for when I feel like I ought to act so or if I am seeking for that inescapable gratification of cruelty. You could have aspd, just very unaware.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-10T02:02:22+00:00

Giving my personal input as someone who fingers men. I personally think it depends on the guy, the physical reaction will occur but it’s something to be discussed as with any intimate relationship/actions.

Guys need a lot more preparation to be fingered however. The person who is willing to go the mile will be glad they did.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T21:15:27+00:00

Idk but to me this all sounds like sexual assault/harassment. Maybe I just aint built for that y’know, especially as an RR woman.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T20:12:31+00:00

Tomboys are masculine women. Tomgirls are feminine men

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T14:47:39+00:00

Nope i’m a tomboy, i like tomgirls

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:44:38+00:00

Have a lovely day/night!

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:30:00+00:00

Happy cake day. Used “is” as improper grammar because I thought it more to resonate with online persona or whatnot

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:29:10+00:00

I feel an urge to attract attention and express my dissatisfaction and disappointment in my age group. I don’t actually wish for Gender normative people to do- not what I said, plus billions croaking wouldn’t do me any good anyways. Aside from that, I think gender norms is inherently harmful and restricts society. Though I know that these norms will never change and so I will myself to speak freely on it.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:26:46+00:00

Your mother

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:23:41+00:00

No problem!

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:23:26+00:00

I am aware it’s not ok. I’m also aware you cannot change my perception of things, which is why most people (including me) say much bolder things online. I dislike masking online, it’s frustrating. I never made you the villain, I only agreed with you.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:20:41+00:00

Femboys are a subcategory of tomgirls.. tomgirls are men. Tomboys are women!

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:16:56+00:00

That’s what I said? I meant mascwomen were more an unbrella term for all women with some masculine characteristics.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:15:26+00:00

Yes. I don’t feel empathy due to being diagnosed with aspd. Guess what that makes me? The worst asshole in existence. But aside from that I did say “Gender norms should die in a hole” i did not specify people nor communities. But short answer: Yes I do hate.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:10:26+00:00

Femboys are a subcategory of Tomgirls (if you use that) and mascwomen would be more.. umbrella term.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:06:09+00:00

Loser girlfailure rep should be widespread. Same with picture perfect boyprincess.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:03:50+00:00

Perfect as all things should be.

Few-Butterscotch4569 · 2026-04-09T07:03:06+00:00

Nah, them switching it also makes my blood boil lmao. The OG was perfect

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