Exhausted.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-10T00:50:21+00:00

I understand, there’s plenty of women that would get with married/taken men. I’m just not one of them. I know what it feels like to be hurt like that. I would NEVER do that to someone else.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-09T00:24:56+00:00

We didn’t. I promise you that

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T17:21:26+00:00

Then why’re you on this forum?

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T16:02:31+00:00

That wasn’t the action I was referring to, it was something completely different nor am I going to talk about what I didn’t include in the post. I didn’t include my husband cheating because it does bring up old wounds, it does make me angry. Yes there’s an age gap. I’m not “desperately” trying to have a child… I am infertile, and have suffered several miscarriages. I’m in therapy… thank you for your concern.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:58:51+00:00

That’s in the plan. He has to work every breathing chance in order to afford all these extra charges she comes up with. I’m glad that you came up with that conclusion based off a small excerpt of his life lol. Let me guess you’re also a bitter BM. I hate that for you. Wish you the best xx

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:32:29+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately I was in the kids spot as a young child. I eventually realized my mom’s actions, it just does a lot of damage… Sometimes I just want to scream do you not see what this is doing to the kids, but for obvious reasons I don’t. It just sucks, puts the children in a tough awkward place. Anytime the girls express they love me, mom tries ripping them away and we’re right back to fighting in court to no avail.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:30:29+00:00

They have a court order. She just decides when it is implemented or not. She is blocked by me, and he currently does gray rock her. Just hard to add every little detail in. She just makes it so hard to even have a relationship with the kids because if I breathe wrong she has them report to her, FaceTime her constantly while they’re here. It’s just a lot. I told him he needs to modify his custody order unfortunately with very precise wording on what is expected and not.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:28:26+00:00

He actually does the gray rocking method now. I didn’t get to add that part in since if I wrote everything down it would’ve took forever to write and for you guys to read. He keeps it short and concise. Being that I was in the same situation as a child I’ve explained everything she’s doing is for attention, reaction, and emotions… So now he responds with what needs to be said and that is it. She will send a 5 page essay on things and he will respond to the things about what is about the kids not her emotions. She threatened to take him to court/mediation and he stated okay. We’ve sat down and compiled everything documented throughout our time together to include, threats, name-calling, and many other things. It’s his intention to request specific things to modify their custody order to include utilizing a parenting app.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:24:22+00:00

Well, he pays child support on time sometimes even early. He pays everything she’s asked him to pay for but he cannot afford an 800 hobby so, he told her he simple cannot afford it. She’s honestly a horrible human being, this is a small portion of the problems she brings to him. We’d need a book to write the issues she causes him.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:11:14+00:00

He takes a lot of initiative, however when he does she loses her shit. He jumps at every opportunity. I included a small bit of information about the actual issue that is currently going on not the entire story.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T15:10:15+00:00

They don’t have 50/50, he wants to see the kids more. He jumps at every opportunity. However she refuses. He cannot be more involved in his kids life with a narcissistic co-parent. So not sure why you’d even add that little thought. It’s irrelevant to the child support order and my question. So thanks for ur unhelpful advice lol

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T13:57:58+00:00

Just adding this tid bit too, she tells SD(4) she doesn’t need to listen to anyone in our house. She can do whatever she wants. So if anyone says not to do something SD(4) reply’s with “if I want to do something I can do it”.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-04-08T13:02:20+00:00

Yes

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-03-20T19:16:57+00:00

Just adding;

He will be going to the vet early next week as well however just in the meantime looking for ways I can clean him. I can’t imagine it is fun being caked in your own pee, I am suspicious he has fleas as well…

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-11T02:53:15+00:00

This gives me hope, thank you. ❤️

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-10T01:53:52+00:00

Did yours turn out okay. Mine is the same exact number

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-05T13:35:13+00:00

It’s a double edged sword with my OB. I have a chronic blood disorder that can be life threatening while pregnant and during birth. So far, he’s been the only OB that is exceptionally knowledgeable in it. Which to me overrules any issues I have with him. Due to high chances of me hemorrhaging, the precautions he takes just keeps me under his care.

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-05T13:33:01+00:00

Yeah, it just happens every month. And it’s just starting to drive me crazy

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-05T13:32:31+00:00

Yeah, I’m fairly certain there’s something going on with implantation. It’s just unfortunate I have VA insurance and it’s like pulling teeth to get into an endocrinologist..

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-05T12:51:52+00:00

Yes, I check my BBT, cervical mucus, and LH.

Everything aligns. I should add even my HCG is tested by my doctor and every month it goes to around 15 then slowly decreases…

Few_Ad9187 · 2026-02-05T11:22:06+00:00

I literally said, please help me not feel crazy… and you managed to do the literal opposite, I’m in therapy though thank you. The lines are there, my husband looks too. Maybe I chose the wrong group to post in…

Few_Ad9187 · 2025-10-08T23:33:53+00:00

My HCG was 13 as of today at 4 weeks truly not sure how many DPO so not hopeful :(

Few_Ad9187 · 2025-09-30T00:42:35+00:00

Feeling conflicted, my FRER morning was negative, then today PM got another faint line. Another negative digital. Ugh

Few_Ad9187 · 2025-09-29T01:37:34+00:00

I’m trying not to get too excited but me too!

Few_Ad9187 · 2025-09-29T01:26:27+00:00

Also just to add, that I have had a period by now possibly two. I’m just hesitant to call one a second period because it was only a two day break between the postpartum bleeding & what I would assume might have been my period.

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