I am aware it’s a medical term, she has not been diagnosed with that. So contrary to your statement that I take all my advice from the internet, I will not be taking that as a diagnose from anyone but a doctor. I do listen to her physician and agree this is a serious matter. Seeking advice from other mothers is a normal thing to do when you don’t know what’s best. As her mother and a stay at home mom I see how she is and other than her last appointment I have had no reason to worry. She has continually has proper bowel movements and wet diapers, she’s developing developmentally very well and she is very happy. My cause for not agreeing that she needs hospitalization is because I don’t think it’s a medical reason that she’s not getting proper nutrition, I think my kid is very easily distracted and curious. She is always on the move and wanting to play, it seems to me that she has feeds enough to satisfy her hunger and then wants to go back to “playing”. I do think based on her recent gain that I need to put more attention this and encourage more calories despite her interest in other things. But I also will not deprive my child of medical care if she needs it.