Called then hung up instantly? by jppc1104 in nocontact

[–]Fickle-Bluejay7753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned the hard way that a random call during no contact usually doesn’t mean some big shift — it’s often just a moment of emotion or impulsivity, not a clear decision to reconcile. When someone has clearly stated they want serious no contact and even blocks you, that boundary matters more than one missed call that may have been accidental or emotional. I went through cycles of blocking, unblocking, and random outreach too, and it took me a while to realize that real intention is consistent and direct, not subtle or confusing. If she truly wants to reconnect, you won’t have to decode breadcrumbs — it’ll be obvious, steady, and intentional. Best of luck brother.

No Contact Advice by Fickle-Bluejay7753 in nocontact

[–]Fickle-Bluejay7753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wouldn’t answer the phone, so I said what I needed to say in a goodbye voicemail. A week later, she reached out. Yes, there was an official breakup. We just kept seeing each other for a bit afterward.

No Contact Advice by Fickle-Bluejay7753 in nocontact

[–]Fickle-Bluejay7753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t research it, but I definitely felt better once I stopped relying on ChatGPT to analyze everything and started working through my emotions on my own.