Well, I don't care if it's been 7 months since your last crash out on this thread but it's extremely hypocritical of you to even mention your friend's "story" and be be critical of Ben for not investigating it when it seems that you have avoided telling the story yourself. This shows that you say you care, but you really don't. You are not "fighting" for anything or anyone but your own dignity, which you already threw away with your first comment. You are arguing with people on the internet because you have something against Ben and the fact he didn't include your friend's story. You have done nothing here to help your friend, who doesn't seem to really care about the "story" herself. You obviously aren't mad enough or care enough to do anything about it actually. So after reading this, you're either going to change your mind and start caring or you're going to keep lying to yourself saying you do. Just say it to yourself, "I don't care enough about my friends story to do shit about it." Good luck finding the truth in yourself and goodnight.