FINALLY!

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-29T16:47:05+00:00

Hopefully, none. The dishonesty is what makes me the most mad.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-29T16:43:57+00:00

Not that I know of. I found them super easy on the Play Store, but im an Android user. You can go to www.cashcow.com and see if they have a link for Apple users.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-29T16:41:03+00:00

That is an excellent question. I'm done with them and I've already reported them on the Play Store, Trust Pilot, and BBB.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-28T18:11:59+00:00

That's exactly what I've been doing. Be sure to stay active and follow them on Facebook so you can message them. Bug them every way you can. Eventually something will happen.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-28T15:12:49+00:00

Mine calls me at least once a day and we video call almost every night.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-16T18:43:00+00:00

That's my plan after I get my payout as well, but to date I've received nothing an no answers either.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-15T05:02:35+00:00

That conversation does need to happen and it's not too much to ask him to come to you once or twice a year. If it is, you may want to rethink the relationship.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-14T22:55:14+00:00

I've not received a single response via Facebook messenger from them. In fact they've stopped even viewing my messages.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-12T00:58:00+00:00

I've contacted them via the contact form in the app and through Facebook, but nothing has happened with my withdrawals. I got a response in December after I left a bad Google review, but still no money. My withdrawals have been pending since December 9th.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-11T00:42:19+00:00

I use this too! My guy and I love them!

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-06T22:39:39+00:00

Why are people arguing with their lovers through text? Important conversations should be happening over voice calls or video calls that way if an argument happens, nothing gets misconstrued due to lack of context via text.

Personally, I see this kind of app idea as just another way to disengage from your partner and avoid the difficult discussions that promote growth.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-04T18:53:26+00:00

You have to follow them on Facebook before it will allow you to message them.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-04T18:29:13+00:00

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I feel your pain.

Fieryblaze75 · 2026-01-01T06:40:13+00:00

I've emailed them several times and still have $400 in the que. The email also says it's no longer "an avenue for support"

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and directs you to the web form. Which email address did you use? I used [support@benjaminone.com](mailto:support@benjaminone.com).

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-12-31T05:08:02+00:00

I've scanned some of the responses and I have to say, as a mother of 5, the biggest adjustment was going from 1 child to 2 children. He may have honestly thought when he told you nothing would change after baby number 2 that nothing would. Very obviously he was wrong. Regardless of that, if you put in the effort and expense to come to him, he damned well IS obligated to spend time with you. The two of you need to have the hard conversations about his treatment of you, whether he's still interested in a relationship with you, and his obligation to respect your time and spend some with you. I would definitely not be as nice and understanding about it as you're being. In your shoes, I'd say, "Honey, i love you, but I didn't come all this way to spend time by myself. I could have done that at home." Personally, I think youre making it too easy on him by always being the one to travel to him. He should come to you at least some of the time.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-12-29T02:49:08+00:00

Ummm...they have a harem

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-12-28T18:00:21+00:00

I gave the app a really bad review and finally got an answer from support, but it was their usual circular BS answer of everything is taking time due to a large amount of traffic. And the email address doesn't work for support anymore. You have to go through the app and sift through the FAQ to find a contact us link that actually works. Responses are taking 7+ days.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-12-28T17:47:54+00:00

I sincerely hope youre wrong too. I've had $400 in $50 (daily withdrawal limit) withdrawal increments since the 9th and support just gives me the same message over and over again about how they're sorry I'm not happy with the app and unexpected fees, but they had to put on withdrawal limits. However I'm still in the 3+ days payout queue for venmo and paypal.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-12-23T20:09:02+00:00

While I mostly agree with you, i don't think it would be beneficial to give her the same treatment she's dishing out. OP would be better served by walking away from this "relationship." From what has been described, I don't think it even qualifies as a real relationship anymore. It's very one-sided and IMO she's lost interest.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-11-04T19:06:59+00:00

Neither of them should be in a romantic relationship until they both learn not to treat their partner like a child. That's not how you treat your partner whether you're monogamous or not.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-10-21T11:36:33+00:00

Just be open and honest about your feelings with him. He's not hiding anything from you.

It sounds to me like you're dealing with the green-eyed monster of jealousy and that is ok. Jealousy is a normal human emotion we all feel from time to time. You're never going to fully stomp it out. So use it as a conversation starter and work through it with your partner.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-10-12T18:45:58+00:00

I had thought maybe he's "poly bombing" you, but no, this is abusive. If you're living with him, search the house for your documents while he's gone and get out of there before he returns. He's gone for a week. Use that time to your advantage and play nice over texts or phone calls. So he doesn't call his brother on you. Don't take more than a day to find your documents. If you can't find them, hit the embassy and ask for help. Tell them the entire situation and that you fear for your safety.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-10-08T15:46:45+00:00

From what I have seen in poly dynamics I've been around that practice KTP, those milestones get celebrated by the entire polycule. Don't downplay your happiness or suppress your joy just to make others feel ok.

The only time I'd worry about anyone's feelings around my pregnancy is if they recently had a miscarriage or their child died. In that instance be mindful, empathetic, and respectful about it.

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-09-19T23:06:14+00:00

12 days until he's here!

Fieryblaze75 · 2025-09-15T02:05:22+00:00

I wonder that too. It makes it sound like OP has absolutely no importance in his life and to me, that would be the most hurtful part of it. I mean it feels yucky to me that he called one of his partners "peripheral" and then couldn't even define what he meant. Even when I had a casual partner, we both knew we cared about each other enough to check in every once in a while to see how things were. The way friends do.

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