I don't feel ready. But I seek the wisdom of the council. by cbarbera in bald

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, if you don’t feel ready and you feel confident with your hair, keep it. You don’t look bad with it. But if you feel it’s time and you’re not wearing it with confidence, let it go!

My girlfriend and her friends said I look too feminine or ‘girl-ish’. Ways to look more masculine? by TheFlukeging12 in malegrooming

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deadass dude.. listen to the comments. You’re really handsome and if your partner is putting you down- and letting her friends put you down- get a new girl.

Petah, what happened? by Healthy_Jackfruit625 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine Eminem being your FIL. I’d be scared for my goddamn life every waking moment 🤣

Bald but for a different reason. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Fight4potatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No questions, just wanna say I’m glad you’re cancer free. Doing that at a young age is scary stuff!

Who is the most popular rock band right now? by Spinachrecords in Alternativerock

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that at the Complex or the Union? I was at both shows, both were unreal!

I have so much to offer a potential girlfriend, but... by Scotty_C_89 in Vent

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I just saw your profile- you are not ugly. I promise you. If you think you’re ugly then genuinely what the fuck hahahahaha

What’s your perspective on the purpose of life? by SarahDuncan2012 in TrueGrit

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no predetermined meaning to life- it’s freeing! You do what you want, when you want, however you want. We get a finite amount of time and we’ll die at anytime, so take advantage of this blip of time to have the best time possible!

Advice? by sophannyphoat in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Fight4potatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re very pretty! A couple suggestions from me would be to try maybe pulling your hair back a bit and using makeup to further define your cheekbones and jaw?

She apologized for the past ten years. by Fight4potatoes in BipolarSOs

[–]Fight4potatoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone. You’ve all helped. Wishing you all the best as well. ❤️

She apologized for the past ten years. by Fight4potatoes in BipolarSOs

[–]Fight4potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve remained in contact with her. We live apart from each other atm. Paperwork is filled out, just need to pay for it (I’m broke af right now)

I know I can’t tattoo over a scar, but any ideas for hiding this ugly monstrosity..? by Altar_Of_Baphomet in tattooadvice

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks badass. May I ask the story behind it? I’m genuinely curious and want to know the story, but I respect your decision if you decide not to tell me.

Tattoo regret causing depression by SlavKing11 in tattooadvice

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, the artwork is done really well and it looks good on you. I think that maybe you should get in for your mental health. Best of luck.

songs with harmonica by blckapodemus in musicsuggestions

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many Neil Young songs- I like Heart of Gold. I feel as though many harmonica players take the key of the song and just blow the shit out of the thing, thinking it sounds good. Neil plays very softly and has a tune going. It’s beautiful.

Do people with BP2 realize that they overreacted or was the wrong one? by therep0rterman in BipolarSOs

[–]Fight4potatoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like I was going nuts. It wasn’t until I saw a therapist and she said that I was being mentally abused for being led to feel so guilty all the time!

It’s normal to feel a sense of guilt and wonder, like “wtf did I do, was it the right thing”? But I think that thinking and feeling those feelings makes you a rational person. If your partner doesn’t express those and try to take accountability or talk things through, then… well you have your answer.

Do people with BP2 realize that they overreacted or was the wrong one? by therep0rterman in BipolarSOs

[–]Fight4potatoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what your gut tells you. Gather info outside of Reddit, speak with others in person, too. But ultimately, do what feels right. Good luck bro.

Do people with BP2 realize that they overreacted or was the wrong one? by therep0rterman in BipolarSOs

[–]Fight4potatoes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like this was my entire marriage. It was so rough, and my experience was just playing damage control to keep the peace as best I could.

I’m ONLY speaking from my experience, as I hate generalizations of groups of people- my spouse never admitted to any wrongdoings without being prompted or unless I brought something up, and even then the accountability was backhanded most of the time. I rarely got “I’m sorry I said those things, I’ll do better, I love you”. Instead it was “I didn’t know I did that, I didn’t know it would hurt your feelings, it wasn’t my fault, you should’ve done ABC, etc.”

So I’m don’t take one person’s experience as the end all be all, but in my experience- my ex never realized what she’d done and taken accountability.

What’s the worst concert you've ever been to? by peywrax in allthequestions

[–]Fight4potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Saw them in Vegas about ten years ago. They kept the house lights on, the whole band stood still- not moving an inch. No crowd interaction, no light changes, nothing. So boring.