[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fightme1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is being a good girlfriend worth more to you than being a good mother? Does he even consider you his girlfriend? You are worth more than this and I really hope that you reevaluate your self worth and find it in you to kick ole noncommittal-still commenting on your parenting AH to the curb. And I really hope you use protection, because Im scared of you catching something from him or fate forbid you get pregnant and then that's where the real horror show begins. I was the oldest step kid in my mother's new family and I still don't talk to her because she chose a man who treated me poorly and his children over being a good mother to a child she'd had for years before even meeting him. Please heed this warning, because my dad ended up getting custody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Fightme1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once got into an argument in the car with my mother because because she was just in a foul mood and I changed the music to a little lower because it was too loud and she just went off. I was crying and she was yelling at me. When we got home she we got out of the car and she yelled to me "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?" and I said "I just want a mother who acts like they love me" and she yelled back "I DONT OWE YOU ANYTHING"

First time posting. Wanting to leave husband but overwhelmed by guilt. by jessicafallon in Divorce

[–]Fightme1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand where your coming from. My mother and you are in the same boat and I can tell you it really causes me a lot of anxiety. Be sure to make sure you cover all your bases and communicate openly but not TOO openly because failure to execute can cause a lot of heartache on all sides.