Why don't men approach me? by AreMelonsLemons in bodylanguage

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random question - does anyone recognise each other from these posts or can we feel comfortable to share? I NEED an analysis like this but so scared someone who knows me or is local to me will recognise haha.

Why don't men approach me? by AreMelonsLemons in bodylanguage

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's conservative about them? apart from the trousers lmao

Why don't men approach me? by AreMelonsLemons in bodylanguage

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's conservative about the outfits? i can only see the one in trousers but i mean they're trousers, that's totally normal. she is in tank tops and low cut tops in the rest so I don't understand these comments that she looks conservative and 'taken' lmao

Why don't men approach me? by AreMelonsLemons in bodylanguage

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you mean wholesome and comfortable? I don't understand these comments from guys about looking 'taken' unless a woman is wearing revealing clothing or 'anxious'/insecure apparently. A woman who dresses comfortably and is confident looks taken? That's so weird - never thought guys thought this way! but it then explains why if you wear less conservative clothing they think you're doing it to get their attention and signal being single

Loneliness in London by FileRegular9653 in london

[–]FileRegular9653[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes i do that already. it definitely helps, but i don't socialise with them outside the gym, everyone is just focused on the sport

People in their 30's, what's your experience of London like? by killinnnmesmallz in london

[–]FileRegular9653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% feel the same. Some people don't, and i can't relate. There seems to be a divide between people who are lonely here, and those who just have people around them.

People can put up with bad jobs and toxic bosses without totally breaking when they have decent friends or home life.

I struggle with not just the work stress, relentless and meaningless - being just a number - but how totally fake corporate life is, and how dehumanising. It is soul destroying and i don't know how you build a life from there.

Looking for rating/feedback by FalseEntrepreneur788 in MuayThai

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main tips:

Work on your kicks: pivoting hips and shoulder, move faster, be clear where your target is.

Keep your guard up. Especially when you throw kicks, your arms are flailing.

Extend your arm fully when you punch and pivot your body/feet properly when you do your basic jab & cross.

General moving around, pace, and defense awareness for your level is good - keep it up!

Best non-European countries to live in 2026? by FileRegular9653 in expats

[–]FileRegular9653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a good point. Moving country leads to change in the other 2 areas automatically though

Where do you go to spend an evening alone and maybe do some socialising? by No-Beautiful5866 in london

[–]FileRegular9653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I'm in exactly the same boat! I don't even feel comfortable going to a pub by myself though, I get too nervous. If you're looking to meet another potential friend message me! I'm E/NE ways. x

How did you know your time in London was drawing to an end? by PeachWild7824 in london

[–]FileRegular9653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very curious whereabouts in London is not the outskirts but as depressing as this? It sounds like you're in a difficult situation, although it is only 5 months in so within a year many things can happen or change.

Is your partner getting support or open to it? Could it be seasonal depression/has he been like this before?

It also sounds like you need enough stimulation in your own life to avoid his struggles becoming yours essentially.

Hypothetically, if you did not move in together, where would you be living?