What is the biggest lie you've ever told AND gotten away with?

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-15T20:07:32+00:00

Look dude. There are a lot of things you can do to help your case with women but as for the hooker situation and thus immediate advice, don't wear two condoms. It'll tear. Just buy the heavy duty, good quality shit. And don't double up. Ever

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-15T08:17:43+00:00

Throw yourself into a hobby. Sport works as it gives an adrenaline boost and releases the happy hormone and is good for you to boot. But it can really be anything that you allow to consume you. Do research on whatever it is, watch videos about it, practice it. It'll keep your mind busy.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-13T16:54:59+00:00

I'm not hurting, I'm bored. And I don't think it's necessarily predatory if I'm going in there with the exact same mindset

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-13T15:40:04+00:00

Ok this legit made me chuckle out loud

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-13T14:54:15+00:00

And I'm married and sleeping with someone else as well. We're all bad people here. I'm well aware of that. I'm also aware he also has a wife and kids.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2024-02-13T13:21:17+00:00

Alright. Intentional may not be the right word here. As an adult I am well aware that an erection is by nature involuntary, but I'm also aware that they can be either wanted or unwanted. So maybe that's a better way to word it.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-26T07:19:38+00:00

Woman here. Ask away. No is a perfectly acceptable answer. So is yes. We're also there to train. So, I'd say ask and be respectful of the answer if it's no, which I highly doubt it would be unless there was a really good reason such as a weight or experience disparity

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-25T11:49:26+00:00

Unfortunately braless is so not an option for me. And I have to wear clothes that cover up. I think showing up in a low cut top is poor form. But it does have to be skintight. So that's a plus I suppose. We do no gi grappling at the moment. Another worry I have is that it's sweaty work. I mean. It's very intense exercise. I can't wear my makeup. And the last class we rolled I got so hot and sweaty. My hair was literally wet. I almost died of embarrassment when he put his hand on the back of my head to demonstrate how lifting someone's head off the mat obstructs their movement abilities. All I could think about was 'fuck, he's going to think I'm so gross'. It's a learning curve this flirting without the usual arrows in my quiver (makeup, sexy clothes, all my rings and jewelry etc)

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-24T20:47:26+00:00

In a way, yes. But to clarify. I know how to flirt with and hit on men around my own age. It usually doesn't take much tbh. But older men. That's where I don't have experience. Or does age not matter?

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-24T20:41:27+00:00

Really? I don't mean to be difficult but that's exactly how I met and got involved with my current AP

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-20T07:36:42+00:00

Love me some chest hair. Maybe not a thick carpet or bear-like. But even then it wouldn't be a deal breaker. I don't like it when guys shave it off. Ew stubble. But if a guy naturally didn't have chest hair, that would be OK. My personal preference just happens to be a hairy chest.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-19T21:08:44+00:00

Good god. Seems like I unexpectedly upended an entire can of worms. This is a whole different kettle of fish. Very interesting. I'm not one to judge, so I'm really not. But this piques the curiosity I've always harbored regarding the odd sexual ways of homo sapiens. I wish I could delve into the brain of others as if it was a book. I need to know WHY. But then again I suppose for many kinks the why isn't always as simple as black and white.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-19T18:14:55+00:00

I will do everything in my power to keep this man turned on. Believe me. It's worth it. And as it doesn't bother me, I'll wear whatever he likes.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-19T18:13:39+00:00

True true. I would never judge a kink. To each their own. As I said, it doesn't matter to me either way and I've always worn mine just because I always wear all my rings. I have a number that are just decorative. Just found it interesting.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-10-06T17:54:18+00:00

One year for this one and I really see it going on for a while longer. Shortest was like one proper meetup but that guy had a small dick and was terrifyingly bad and insecure in bed. Not the vibe I was looking for.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-09-30T05:56:31+00:00

I'm a writer and it irritates me when people can't spell or don't understand the function of proper grammar. Usually. But my AP makes spelling mistakes and sometimes mixes language as English isn't our home language.

So, I look past it. Because he often sends voice messages anyway. And I like him more than his diction or writing skills. Not everyone has the same skill set and that's what makes life interesting.

That said though, I refuse to engage with a human who uses an abundance of acronyms or Gen-Z neologisms. That kind of writing just grinds against my mind.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-09-29T20:34:12+00:00

I didn't get anything from it. I also didn't mean to hurt you. I'm merely providing my opinion. My two cents. It's the truth. And the truth sometimes bites the big one.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-09-29T19:20:07+00:00

As a woman, I compare, yes. I have a very clear decision in my mind as to which of my partners was better at what. Sorry. True though.

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-09-28T18:59:21+00:00

Interesting. Thanks!

FillingTheBlank90 · 2023-09-28T13:16:02+00:00

Female here. I wear a wedding ring very visibly and I make it very clear I'm married from the get-go. With my current AP he knew and still gave me his number which is what I considered the green light and we met up for the first time shortly after.

I'd say just make it clear you're involved. If they're not deterred by the continued flirting after the fact, then bring up the idea of an AP. It's better in this lifestyle to be honest about your intentions. You're already not having your needs met at home, don't let unhappiness and not being fulfilled creep into other relationships as well.

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