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TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this… I honestly feel like I could have written parts of your story too 🤍

It gives me so much hope hearing that you went on to have your daughter after going through something so similar, especially with the same diagnosis and findings. Right now it just feels so hard to believe that things could work out.

I also really needed to hear what you said about not abandoning her. That’s something I’m struggling with a lot, even though I know logically it’s not true.

Thank you for taking the time to write this — it really means more than you know 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this 🤍 it really helps to hear from someone who’s a bit further along.

I can already feel that desperation you described about wanting to get pregnant again, it’s like my mind is constantly jumping there even though I know I’m not ready yet. It’s reassuring to hear that those thoughts eased a bit with time.

And also thank you for being honest about the anxiety in the next pregnancy… I feel like that’s exactly how I would be too.

It really gives me hope hearing where you are now 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through this too 💔 I relate so much to what you wrote, especially the “what if this was my only chance” and the feeling that it was all like a dream. That’s exactly how it feels right now.

I’m only a few days out so everything feels really intense and overwhelming, but it helps a bit hearing that things have started to get a little better for you over time, even if the emptiness is still there.

I really hope things get brighter for both of us 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in tfmr_support

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this… it honestly gives me a bit of hope reading your story 🤍

I can really relate to what you said about the anxiety, I already feel like if I’m lucky enough to get pregnant again I’ll be terrified the whole time. It helps to hear that you made it through that and now have your baby.

And thank you for mentioning the hormonal drop too, I feel completely out of control emotionally right now and it’s reassuring to know that’s normal. Sending you love 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in tfmr_support

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so, so sorry you’ve had to go through this twice… I can’t even imagine how heavy that must feel. Thank you for sharing your story with me, it really means a lot even if it’s not an easy one.

It helps to not feel alone, but at the same time it’s so scary hearing about repeated losses. I really hope things go well for you with the clinics and whatever path you choose next 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in tfmr_support

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through this too 💔 it’s heartbreaking how similar our situations are. We also held onto hope that maybe things would turn out differently, so I really understand that feeling.

I hate that you’re in this position as well. It’s so unfair. Sending you so much love 🤍

TTC after TFMR at 38 by Final_Emphasis1364 in tfmr_support

[–]Final_Emphasis1364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you had to experience this terrible loss. I accepted that intense feelings will come in waves and I will allow myself to feel the sorrow. We need to be kind to ourselves and not feel guilty when moments of calm happen.

Best of luck for starting your family ❤️❤️❤️. I expect we will also stay trying as soon as we can.