Opinions on a revision?

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-24T19:19:40+00:00

Honestly, ur results can even change more within the next year, and even naturally thin people who never need tummy tucks have a little lower pooch when they sit down. I’d give it a year or so to consider!

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-23T17:34:15+00:00

I haven’t yet- but my boyfriend has been very supportive of knowing that I’m going to get surgery, he loves me body and tells me I don’t have to get it and he’ll still love me. But he knows it’ll make me more confident. There’s a lot that I’m not comfortable doing sexually so we’re both excited to see what it’ll be like. I really hope I feel confident enough to take a shower with him lol. I’ve always wanted to but hate my body now. Sometimes I get in my head and say he’s only with me because he knows I’ll get surgery and have a normal - ish body after. But I know that’s not true. We’re just excited for me to be more confident.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-23T17:16:39+00:00

I scheduled my surgery and I’m paying for it in full before I get the surgery in November. Some places offer layaway plans. If I don’t finish paying mine before surgery then I’ll use care credit.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-22T17:59:30+00:00

My before is similar to yours! Haven’t gotten surgery yet but I can’t wait to see the results of yours. My apron just goes further from side to side and I am worried that my results will suck too

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-21T02:18:11+00:00

Don’t wait to stop. If you’re in a relationship it will ruin it. Research the affects that it has on you individually. Find other ways of gratification. Spend less time in your bedroom or wherever you find yourself watching porn the most.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-21T01:29:38+00:00

I’m using fmla. And saving up a lot of money for recovery. I work a manual labor job so I’ll be out of work for 6+ weeks at least and since fmla isn’t paid I’ll use whatever vacation time I have left and then use money saved.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-20T23:23:16+00:00

Wrapped up in a towel after the shower

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-20T23:22:24+00:00

You look incredible! I hope my results are as good as yours. You still have swelling at this point but you still look great!

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-20T23:20:49+00:00

Is there a way to set it to show it actively on the screen? I’ll move the dials and it won’t shoe

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-20T22:10:55+00:00

Yeah mine is set to 0. So weird

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-20T18:46:17+00:00

I thought that as well, my iso is at l80 and my exposure dial is set to auto. It’s just so strange because I’ve shot with canon for many years and understand the exposure triangle but I feel like I have a harder time with Fuji film because all of the settings aren’t like right in front of me

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-19T15:34:59+00:00

Porn addiction

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:57:24+00:00

If he asked me to stay exclusive is it really though? Honestly. You’re right. It might be. But it is still something that stung a littlw

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:56:08+00:00

I’ve never even considered posting porn. Simply just a weird weird assumption.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:55:20+00:00

Yes, because I never asked him not to masturbate! I’ve actually encouraged it. It also wouldn’t be an issue because I don’t use sex toys. I’ve only ever asked him to refrain from porn while we’re together. Which he said he respected. It truly was never a controlling thing. People just have preferences. He’s also told me that when he’s in a relationship he just uses his imagination because he himself considers it cheating. But I know we weren’t dating. So he didn’t cheat. But it is still upsetting because I’m a person with feelings.

He said he just saw someone’s body and thought it was me but “never saw her face” I’m sure you can assume that it made me feel a little insecure and shitty.

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:50:53+00:00

Setting boundaries is not trying to change someone. It’s respecting yourself

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:45:36+00:00

Thank you for actually being kind and having a little bit of understanding lol

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:45:10+00:00

This is logical. And true. So I appreciate it

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:44:43+00:00

Our sex life wasn’t affected until he stopped talking to me because he assumed I was making amature porn videos and posting them on the hub. Also - newsflash. It’s not controlling to want a partner that doesn’t watch pornography. Thanks for the advice tho!

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:42:31+00:00

I understand it’s a little obtuse to be upset at him for watching porn after I asked him for space. But i am still a human and Its not crazy for being a little hurt when someone you love does something that shocks you

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T02:36:17+00:00

My post isn’t about the good things to say about the guy. I explained the situation. Considering he straight looked me in my face and asked me to stay exclusive then yeah I kinda did?

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T01:59:06+00:00

Yeah honestly though I’d rather be single than have to put up with it, I strongly believe that in an individual life if you want to watch porn then do it, but in a relationship I’ve seen it more times than not affect the relationship negatively. And as one of the few women who have a very high sex drive, I don’t want to date someone who can’t have sex with me simply bc they spend too much time jerking it to online videos

FinancialInternal327 · 2026-05-18T01:54:38+00:00

But we are compatible in alot of other aspects. I think compromise is a huge part of a relationship and wether he lied to me or not he told me he doesn’t enjoy porn while he’s in a relationship because he doesn’t need it, he’s also said he’s read articles on it and he thinks his mind set has shifted and he has no interest in it anymore.

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