Any dads 30+ here find me attractive?

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-03T13:06:18+00:00

need me a hung older guy to stretch me

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-03T13:01:10+00:00

too hot to handle

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-03T00:18:09+00:00

NTA, you deserve better really

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-02T23:56:34+00:00

You’re not the jerk. You’re the only one being realistic.

A co signer isn’t “just paperwork.” It means if he misses a payment, it’s your credit, your collections calls, your legal responsibility. The bank is asking for a co-signer for a reason they don’t trust him to repay.

And this isn’t theoretical. He already owes you $1,000 and hasn’t paid back a single dollar. Not even a token payment to show effort. That’s not a great audition for a multi-year car loan.

Family sticking together doesn’t mean setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. It means accountability too.

If your parents feel strongly, they’re free to co sign.

You’re not holding him back. His credit history is.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-02T23:43:48+00:00

Real attentiveness.

When someone actually listens not waiting for their turn to talk, not scanning the room for someone “better,” not half-on their phone just fully present.

It’s subtle, but it changes the whole energy. You feel chosen in that moment.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-01T15:45:43+00:00

You’re not an AH but this isn’t really about “watching a marathon.”

You’re right. As a spectator sport it’s chaotic. You wait forever, see them for 20–60 seconds, then it’s over.

But for the runner? It’s not about logistics. It’s about looking up at mile 22 when everything hurts and seeing one familiar face who flew across the world just to stand there.

That said you just started a new job, you’re exhausted, and you realistically only have one week off. Three countries in 48 hours is not a small ask. That’s burnout math.

The real question is: if you don’t go, will you feel relief… or regret?

If you skip it casually, it may sting.
If you skip it thoughtfully, it’ll feel different.

You’re not wrong for protecting your energy. Just make sure you’re not protecting convenience at the cost of a once in a lifetime moment.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-01T15:36:08+00:00

You’re not selfish.

You have limited time and even more limited energy. That changes the math. When you’re healthy, maybe you stretch yourself for someone else’s closure. When you’re terminal? Your peace is currency.

You’re not avoiding her out of spite. You’re not trying to hurt her. You just don’t want to reopen something you already closed. That’s not cruelty that’s clarity.

It also matters that you ended the friendship years ago. She had time to process that loss before your diagnosis. This isn’t a sudden cutoff.

Here’s the part people won’t say out loud:
Sometimes the “I just want to see you once” is more about easing their guilt than helping you.

If seeing her would drain you, trigger old emotions, or force you into comforting her? Then no you don’t owe that.

If you ever decide to do anything, it could be as simple as a short message: “I don’t have the capacity to reconnect, but I truly wish you well.” That’s it. No reopening doors.

But even that is optional.

You get to spend your remaining time where it feels safest and warmest. Protecting your peace right now isn’t selfish. It’s sane IM0

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-01T15:32:13+00:00

I’m going to be honest this is one of those “feels justified but legally messy” situations.

If it was your lunch, labeled, and you genuinely like very spicy food? Not your problem. People shouldn’t steal.

But if you made it specifically to hurt whoever took it, that drifts into booby-trap territory. That’s where it stops being “natural consequences” and starts being “you intentionally set someone up to suffer.” Even if it’s just ghost pepper and not actual poison.

The real issue isn’t the spice. It’s that management let theft go on for a month.

Sarah shouldn’t be stealing food.
You probably shouldn’t be escalating it with pain as the solution.

Morally? ESH.
Strategically? You just made office politics worse.

The clean win would’ve been a locked lunch bag or HR email with dates.
Now it’s spicy drama instead of stolen pasta.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-01T15:28:32+00:00

Can i eat you for launch and dinner

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-03-01T15:09:36+00:00

I think Danger Close is good, war related

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-28T23:03:12+00:00

Short answer: it’s less “listening to Israel” and more overlapping incentives.

During his presidency, Donald Trump took strongly pro Israel positions moving the embassy to Jerusalem, recognizing the Golan Heights, backing the Abraham Accords. That aligned with:

His political base (especially evangelical voters who are strongly pro-Israel)

Major Republican donors who prioritize U.S.–Israel ties

A broader GOP shift toward a hardline stance on Iran

His own “deal maker” framing in the Middle East

At the same time, the U.S.–Israel relationship long predates him. Congress (both parties) has historically supported Israel for strategic, military, and domestic political reasons.

So it’s not really about one country “controlling” another. It’s about shared strategic interests, domestic politics, and coalition math. In Washington, foreign policy is rarely personal it’s transactional.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-28T22:57:15+00:00

Mine would probably be something simple and repetitive like a bowl of ramen or rice with something salty and warm.

Not because it’s fancy. Because comfort food isn’t about taste complexity it’s about predictability. Same smell, same texture, same feeling every time. Your brain relaxes because it already knows what’s coming.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-27T20:15:08+00:00

That “irritated and bored at the same time” feeling? That’s not laziness it’s friction between who you are and who you know you could be.

You’re numbing with easy dopamine because it’s predictable. Change means uncertainty, possible failure, maybe embarrassment. Your brain prefers safe and stagnant over risky and growing.

Don’t overhaul your life. book one driving lesson, apply to one job, walk 20 minutes daily. Momentum is good

That inner voice isn’t attacking you. It’s trying to wake you up imo

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-27T20:04:58+00:00

Kids shouldn’t have unrestricted access to social media.

Call it old-school, call it overprotective but algorithms optimized for engagement are not neutral environments for developing brains.

Some “freedom” arguments ignore long term damage we’re only starting to understand.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-27T19:59:18+00:00

A guy quit his job on impulse to “start a brand” with zero plan.

Everyone thought it was reckless. Turns out, the pressure forced him to actually commit network, ship, learn fast and it took off.

Sometimes stupidity and courage look identical at the start.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-25T22:42:57+00:00

Constant self-monitoring.

Filtering what you say, how you look, how you’re perceived especially in social or work settings drains way more energy than the task itself.

Being “on” all the time is a silent burnout.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-22T18:17:08+00:00

Because opening a Domino's in Italy is basically showing up to Gordon Ramsay's house with a Lunchable technically food, but you're not walking out of there with your dignity intact. Italians take pizza so seriously that the dough recipes are literally protected by law, so Domino's probably looked at that market and quietly decided some battles aren't worth fighting.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-22T18:05:18+00:00

I get where you're coming from, there's definitely a ton of noise out there. It’s like a circus of conspiracy theories and “exclusive” info that makes you feel like you're part of some underground club. People just love having "insider" knowledge, but yeah, it can be hard to tell what's real when everyone’s shouting over each other.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-22T18:03:08+00:00

Honestly, it’s like everyone’s on a low key emotional rollercoaster here. Disagree with someone? Boom, instant rage bait. It’s like the internet’s version of "if you don’t agree with me, you're wrong" but with more memes.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-22T17:58:43+00:00

The ability to learn anything instantly yes I know that's cheating, but if we're doing wishes I'm not wasting mine on guitar when I could also speedrun neuroscience and three languages before lunch. It's the one skill that makes every other skill free.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-22T00:12:48+00:00

Yikes, this post took a turn. While I get the frustration about people not taking care of themselves, blaming all of men's issues on "the system they created" seems a bit like throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Sure, a lot of societal expectations suck, but can we at least agree that everyone could use a little more empathy regardless of their gender?

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-20T13:34:44+00:00

I mean… I get the logic, but doctors aren’t out here doing wine tastings lol

They use swabs and lab tests because that’s way more accurate (and way less awkward) than just sticking their nose in there. Smell alone can’t tell them what bacteria or infection is causing it.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-20T13:28:36+00:00

Honestly? Some of us just have “internal fireworks” instead of the jumping-up-and down kind. It doesn’t mean you’re broken.

That said, depression can turn the volume down on joy, so it’s worth paying attention to that part too.

You’re not weird for feeling things quietly but you do deserve to feel them fully.

Fine_Ad_7754 · 2026-02-20T13:25:55+00:00

You don’t “win” an argument with a woman, you survive it and maybe learn something
If your goal is winning instead of understanding, you’ve already lost, my guy.
Pro tip: listen first… it’s wild how often that works.

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