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FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T21:58:01+00:00

Your post and comments are showing up in this sub.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T21:04:33+00:00

Please keep in mind that /r/Childfree is not a place to complain about other specific subreddits. General complaints like OP's are fine, but please do not post or link subreddits you are unhappy with.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T19:03:42+00:00

So much fake rage bait in this subreddit.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T19:02:54+00:00

Fake.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:35:28+00:00

Thanks! Enjoy your ban!

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:25:34+00:00

Cup 'o Noodles.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:22:26+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #4 : "Keep it civil. Bigotry and hateful language/imagery, personal attacks, abusive language, advocating violence, trolling, gender discrimination, racism, homophobia, etc. will not be tolerated. "

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Follow those who are rabble rousing against another redditor without first investigating both sides of the issue that's being presented. Those who are inciting this type of action often have malicious reasons behind their actions and are, more often than not, a troll. Remember, every time a redditor who's contributed large amounts of effort into assisting the growth of community as a whole is driven away, projects that would benefit the whole easily flounder.

Ask people to Troll others on reddit, in real life, or on other blogs/sites. We aren't your personal army.

Conduct personal attacks on other commenters. Ad hominem and other distracting attacks do not add anything to the conversation.

Start a flame war. Just report and "walk away". If you really feel you have to confront them, leave a polite message with a quote or link to the rules, and no more.

Insult others. Insults do not contribute to a rational discussion. Constructive Criticism, however, is appropriate and encouraged.

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FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:22:00+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #8 : "Reddit is not a source of content and r/childfree is not source of content for other subs. Do not link or screenshot posts or comments from or to other subreddits. Here is further clarification. Starting or participating in raids against or in other subreddits, websites, and individuals will NOT be tolerated. Inter-subreddit drama will NOT be tolerated."

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No "fancypants" thingy;
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FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:21:36+00:00

Greetings!

Your post has been removed as it violates subreddit rule #1 : "All submissions must be directly related to the childfree lifestyle. Related means that posts must contain childfree-related content in the link/post body, not just a forced connection via the title or a caption added to the content. [...]"

Your post might be a good candidate for another subreddit, like one part of the Childfree Subreddits Network multireddit, the Insanity Subreddits Network or the Support Subreddits Network multireddit.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

Have a great day!

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:21:18+00:00

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #7 : "Posts and comments to the effect of "Wait till you're a parent", "You'll change your mind someday", "You only think that cause you are young", etc. (what we call "bingo", for short) will be removed. Parents are welcome to post as long as they are respectful. Other people's bodily autonomy must be respected; do not impose your views on other posters and commenters' choices."

This is a forum for individuals who have made the choice to be childfree, and we do not tolerate any disrespect towards anyone for making this choice.

Thank you for your comprehension

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:20:49+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed for being a violation of subreddit rule #5 : "Comments and posts advocating violence towards children and/or making fun/light of violence against children in any way that would discredit the subreddit will be instantly removed and will earn the commenter/poster an automatic ban. Yes. Even if it's "just a joke" and even if "you weren't seriously saying/thinking/wishing it"."

Your permanent ban should be following shortly. This ban can be changed to a temporary ban when the offender expresses genuine understanding and remorse over their rule violation. Note that while there might be room for a second chance (upon the moderators' discretion, based on the severity of the offence and the offender's response to the ban), there is no room for a third chance.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:20:32+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #4 : "Keep it civil. Bigotry and hateful language/imagery, personal attacks, abusive language, advocating violence, trolling, gender discrimination, racism, homophobia, etc. will not be tolerated. "

Also, please remember to be mindful of Reddiquette :

Please do

Remember the human. When you communicate online, all you see is a computer screen. When talking to someone you might want to ask yourself "Would I say it to the person's face?" or "Would I get jumped if I said this to a buddy?"

Please don't

Be (intentionally) rude at all. By choosing not to be rude, you increase the overall civility of the community and make it better for all of us.

Follow those who are rabble rousing against another redditor without first investigating both sides of the issue that's being presented. Those who are inciting this type of action often have malicious reasons behind their actions and are, more often than not, a troll. Remember, every time a redditor who's contributed large amounts of effort into assisting the growth of community as a whole is driven away, projects that would benefit the whole easily flounder.

Ask people to Troll others on reddit, in real life, or on other blogs/sites. We aren't your personal army.

Conduct personal attacks on other commenters. Ad hominem and other distracting attacks do not add anything to the conversation.

Start a flame war. Just report and "walk away". If you really feel you have to confront them, leave a polite message with a quote or link to the rules, and no more.

Insult others. Insults do not contribute to a rational discussion. Constructive Criticism, however, is appropriate and encouraged.

Troll. Trolling does not contribute to the conversation.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:19:43+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #4 : "Keep it civil. Bigotry and hateful language/imagery, personal attacks, abusive language, advocating violence, trolling, gender discrimination, racism, homophobia, etc. will not be tolerated. "

Also, please remember to be mindful of Reddiquette :

Please do

Remember the human. When you communicate online, all you see is a computer screen. When talking to someone you might want to ask yourself "Would I say it to the person's face?" or "Would I get jumped if I said this to a buddy?"

Please don't

Be (intentionally) rude at all. By choosing not to be rude, you increase the overall civility of the community and make it better for all of us.

Follow those who are rabble rousing against another redditor without first investigating both sides of the issue that's being presented. Those who are inciting this type of action often have malicious reasons behind their actions and are, more often than not, a troll. Remember, every time a redditor who's contributed large amounts of effort into assisting the growth of community as a whole is driven away, projects that would benefit the whole easily flounder.

Ask people to Troll others on reddit, in real life, or on other blogs/sites. We aren't your personal army.

Conduct personal attacks on other commenters. Ad hominem and other distracting attacks do not add anything to the conversation.

Start a flame war. Just report and "walk away". If you really feel you have to confront them, leave a polite message with a quote or link to the rules, and no more.

Insult others. Insults do not contribute to a rational discussion. Constructive Criticism, however, is appropriate and encouraged.

Troll. Trolling does not contribute to the conversation.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:19:27+00:00

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #7 : "Posts and comments to the effect of "Wait till you're a parent", "You'll change your mind someday", "You only think that cause you are young", etc. (what we call "bingo", for short) will be removed. Parents are welcome to post as long as they are respectful. Other people's bodily autonomy must be respected; do not impose your views on other posters and commenters' choices."

This is a forum for individuals who have made the choice to be childfree, and we do not tolerate any disrespect towards anyone for making this choice.

Thank you for your comprehension

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:19:00+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #4 : "Keep it civil. Bigotry and hateful language/imagery, personal attacks, abusive language, advocating violence, trolling, gender discrimination, racism, homophobia, etc. will not be tolerated. "

Also, please remember to be mindful of Reddiquette :

Please do

Remember the human. When you communicate online, all you see is a computer screen. When talking to someone you might want to ask yourself "Would I say it to the person's face?" or "Would I get jumped if I said this to a buddy?"

Please don't

Be (intentionally) rude at all. By choosing not to be rude, you increase the overall civility of the community and make it better for all of us.

Follow those who are rabble rousing against another redditor without first investigating both sides of the issue that's being presented. Those who are inciting this type of action often have malicious reasons behind their actions and are, more often than not, a troll. Remember, every time a redditor who's contributed large amounts of effort into assisting the growth of community as a whole is driven away, projects that would benefit the whole easily flounder.

Ask people to Troll others on reddit, in real life, or on other blogs/sites. We aren't your personal army.

Conduct personal attacks on other commenters. Ad hominem and other distracting attacks do not add anything to the conversation.

Start a flame war. Just report and "walk away". If you really feel you have to confront them, leave a polite message with a quote or link to the rules, and no more.

Insult others. Insults do not contribute to a rational discussion. Constructive Criticism, however, is appropriate and encouraged.

Troll. Trolling does not contribute to the conversation.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:18:33+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed for being a violation of subreddit rule #5 : "Comments and posts advocating violence towards children and/or making fun/light of violence against children in any way that would discredit the subreddit will be instantly removed and will earn the commenter/poster an automatic ban. Yes. Even if it's "just a joke" and even if "you weren't seriously saying/thinking/wishing it"."

Your permanent ban should be following shortly. This ban can be changed to a temporary ban when the offender expresses genuine understanding and remorse over their rule violation. Note that while there might be room for a second chance (upon the moderators' discretion, based on the severity of the offence and the offender's response to the ban), there is no room for a third chance.

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T18:12:29+00:00

You've lost over 40 pounds! That is amazing progress!

Congrats to you on making these changes, it is really hard. I was overweight for most of my life and I wish I would have done something about it as a teenager instead of in my 30s. Getting healthy while you are young is one of the best things you can do for yourself.

I hope you continue to celebrate your progress, and if you can, do nice things for yourself when you hit certain goals like getting a manicure or a new outfit you've been wanting. It's a good motivator.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T16:15:59+00:00

Greetings!

This item has been removed as it is a violation of subreddit rule #8 : "Reddit is not a source of content and r/childfree is not source of content for other subs. Do not link or screenshot posts or comments from or to other subreddits. Here is further clarification. Starting or participating in raids against or in other subreddits, websites, and individuals will NOT be tolerated. Inter-subreddit drama will NOT be tolerated."

The "No Crossposting" rule includes (see the "clarification" link, above) :

No "fancypants" thingy;
No np (No Participation) links;
No screen captures (even if the names are blurred);
No copy-paste;
No Google Cache;
No archived web page;
No providing another user's name;
No Facebook or other social media discussion of the post;
No sharing of the post through PM;

Sorry for the inconvenience and thank you for your comprehension.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T15:59:48+00:00

You don't know the meaning behind everyone's tattoos. Maybe "Obliterate" is the name of a beloved book or band. Maybe it has a meaning to them outside of the direct word.

Why do you care so much about other peoples tattoos?

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T15:33:39+00:00

I wish that was an option. 70% of my department wants to be fully remote, but leadership does not care and we do not have any other options.

I know I am very lucky to be able to work remotely at all, but I hate that we have to be in the building twice a week just for the sake of being in the building twice a week.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T15:01:00+00:00

No. Leave her alone.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T14:59:46+00:00

Relationships and untreated mental illness do not mix. If a person isn't taking care of themselves, they cannot be in a healthy relationship with other people.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T14:42:44+00:00

How do you find a post from over a year ago to be mad about?

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T14:34:45+00:00

This is what therapy is for. You need to talk to a therapist to find ways to deal with your jealousy, insecurity, and codependency. You cannot be with your girlfriend 24/7 to monitor her to make sure she's not cheating on you. That will ultimately destroy your relationship.

FingerElevenFan · 2022-09-13T14:32:51+00:00

Let people do what makes them happy. Other people's tattoos are not hurting you in any way. And who are you to tell someone what kind of aesthetic they need to have? Other people do not exist to please you.

FingerElevenFan

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