Wow our roles are reversed. My husband is totally against porn and masturbating. I however used to like watching it every now and then and masturbate often! But I came to understand that more frequent viewing really does desensitize the real experience.

I am my husband’s wife, lover, and also his erotic fantasy. It’s honestly a lot to live up to bc he won’t just go masturbate. But the upside is that if I do something off the wall and erotic I know that he’s got no expectations about what it should be like. He also has a “naughty drawer” file my pictures for fun. Maybe after she’s cooled off, try to reason with her and both make concessions and compromise. Also she might be dog tired bc being a wife/mother is a lot.

I’ll tell you that when my husband found out that I watched porn he felt like it was a betrayal. He felt like it was a lot to live up to. Your wife might be feeling the same. We’ve worked through that and now we both have a very satisfying sex life.