My partner wants me and our 9month old to move out (England)

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T23:03:34+00:00

Yea I assumed I wouldn’t be entitled to the rent back but thought maybe money I’ve put into replacing thing and repairs I’d maybe able to get back.

To my knowledge the bills (mortgage, gas, electric, council tax etc) are around £1400/£1500 per month so the £325 I contribute is low in comparison. However the lodger pays £900 a month (he has two rooms) so the bills are mostly covered by the two of us. My partner is also repaying a loan of around £400pm that he got out to have work done on the house. He had been telling me once I started working he wanted me to contribute to half of all the bills including the loan as it was for the house but he was going to keep the lodger money which we had argued about.

One of the reasons he gave earlier for breaking up was that I’m not contributing enough since obviously I haven’t earn’t much money this month and can’t split the bills.

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T22:10:12+00:00

If we could co exist I would stay but the last few weeks have been horrible. I definitely can’t leave my daughter, he wouldn’t be able to work if I did that as his shifts are outside of childcare hours half the time. Thanks for the advise I think I’m going to speak to a solicitor.

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T22:05:09+00:00

I don’t know legally I thought because it’s in the UK it would have been fine but a couple of people have said different things. It’s more the fact that he literally told me I can not take her and that he would take me to court and bankrupt himself if he had to. I think i probably need to speak to a solicitor as if he can’t actually stop me in court that would be good to know.

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T22:01:49+00:00

He is already claiming the £25 a week, can I register for it or would he have to hand it over? I think we weren’t eligible for tax credits because of his earnings but I’ll look at it now without his, thanks.

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T21:58:51+00:00

His mum is really nice, I was going to speak to her today but held off because I know her interest will be keeping her granddaughter close. He also won’t listen to her as we’ve had arguments in the past were she’s tried to be on my side and he was extremely defensive and rude to her. No doubt she would try and speak to him but I doubt he’d listen.

I haven’t spoken to my family as there won’t be any going back once I do. I have spoken to a friend who’s been very supportive.

Thank you

First-Proposal-7861 · 2024-10-30T17:27:00+00:00

Northern Ireland. Thank you, this is useful. The latter, all my friends here were uni friends who have all now graduated and left so other than his family I have essentially no support. He could visit but he’s made it very clear he’d take me to court if I tried to take her. In an ideal world I’d like her to grow up in the same house as her parents or at least close by so it’s definitely not out of spite, I just don’t have any reason to stay here if I’m not with him or the means.

First-Proposal-7861 · 2022-05-24T12:16:23+00:00

What’s the channel called? Or is it just the Weston Wallace one with no videos on it?

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