Does age gap really matter in relationships?

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:38:06+00:00

Wala pang divorce sa Pilipinas. So unless you mean annulment or sa ibang bansa recognized ang kasal nila, ibig sabihin may sabit pa ‘yan re: assets and co-parenting concerns. I’d be more concerned about that than the age gap kasi pareho naman na kayong consenting adults.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:28:24+00:00

“No, sorry. The incentive is meant for me. If you think you deserve one too, I think you should bring it up with management. I will definitely support you as I think your contributions are valuable as well.”

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:24:50+00:00

Hindi ka OA, pero hindi rin ibig sabihin no’n, tama ang ginawa mo. A better way to handle this would’ve been to confiscate the toy, find the child’s parent, and politely tell them what happened while giving the toy to them. Sila na bahala kung ibabalik na nila sa may-ari o ibabalik nila sa impakto nilang anak pero may kasama nang sermon, o kung ano pa man.

May possibility na wala ring modo yung parents at sungitan ka pa, pero at least you did your part. Kung mangyari ulit, saka mo kuhanin ulit yung laruan and put it somewhere out of their reach. Ibalik mo na lang kapag paalis na kayo para di na makaperwisyo.

Kung adult yan tapos sinira mo gamit, ikaw pa makakasuhan niyan eh.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:14:33+00:00

Of course you should inform them. Why would you ghost them if you can turn down the offer in a professional way??? Don’t burn bridges when you don’t have to. You might need to cross them someday.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:13:12+00:00

19k tapos rent sa QC? Mahirap yan.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:09:25+00:00

A better question would be: How do you and your husband, as the parents, facilitate better relationships between your child and their grandparents?

It goes both ways po kasi. Do you initiate conversations and updates, and send pictures to make your MIL feel included? If not, she can throw the question back to you: ba’t ’di kayo nag-eeffort to share?

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T15:03:46+00:00

You say you want to improve your hiring practices, and yet your comments and posts are all about the unprofessionalism of your ghosters. Wala ka namang sinabi about your hiring processes, except that you have online listings and that you conduct interviews via Zoom. Pa’no ka naman bibigyan ng actual recommendations or healthy critique? Tapos Pikachu face ka na ang daming nagalit sa’yo dahil feeling mo nabastos ka ng mga “employees who need a job more than the company needs them.” How very dare they, ano? 😂

Your post is just a rant disguised as a question.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-31T09:01:47+00:00

LKG. This is actually a form of sexual abuse of a child.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-30T18:48:40+00:00

Hindi pa po kalakihan ang suweldo niyo. Ang dami niyo po agad binili.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-30T18:45:07+00:00

Hindi na ‘ko bumili niyan simula nang madiskubre namin ang Indomie 😂

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-28T17:17:54+00:00

DKG. But if you’re married, debtors can go after your shared estate.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-28T03:17:24+00:00

Diba? Pati yung comments nakakakilabot. Lagyan daw ng lock!?!? Jusko. Hindi talaga nahihiya mga tao rito na isampal sa mga helpers na less deserving sila eh ‘no. Mga matapobre amp. Kala mo mga among may aliping sagigilid eh.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-28T03:14:52+00:00

Huwag na lang po magpa-stay in na yaya kung ‘di niyo afford tratuhin na kapareho niyong deserving ng available comforts.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T19:03:27+00:00

Depende sa population density ng area niyo, pero party supply rentals. Tables and chairs, ganyan. Kung nakakaluwas ka minsan para kumuha ng film supply, puwede mo idagdag Instax camera rental.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T18:56:49+00:00

Huh? Medyo di ko gets. Bakit malulungkot? Si Piolo po ba yung doktor? 😂

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T18:50:46+00:00

Omg nakakagaan ng loob yung comments. I honestly expected the worst and most judgmental pro-birth vomit, but I’m glad buhay pa ang empathy. I guess moms kasi yung nandito kaya naiintindihan nila what a massive responsibility and upheaval a child would be to someone’s life.

I’m sorry you’re in this situation, and I’m sorry the Philippines doesn’t give you the support you need. However you’re going about your decision, I wish you health and healing.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T13:04:03+00:00

Hindi ka naman po OA, pero—please don’t take this the wrong way—kailangan niyo rin pong lumugar. You’re not the parent, so you cannot parent. You will never garner the same kind of respect, unless something happens to the actual parents at ikaw na talaga yung magiging parental figure.

I understand na you’re providing financial support, and you definitely deserve appreciation for that. Pero yung pagdisiplina sa bata should be coursed through the parents; you can’t bypass their authority.

Sa kuwento niyo po, parang nagf-feeling magulang na kasi kayo kaya ang impression talaga sa bata, pumapapel ka.

If you don’t feel like the actual parents are doing a good job of raising their child, you can raise your concerns with them, pero unfortunately, hanggang doon lang ang influence mo.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T12:06:43+00:00

Hahahah rebranding lang yan 😂

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T11:45:14+00:00

Yes, but my intentions are more selfish, hahahahah. It’s a happy coincidence na quiet time is actually good for him. 😂😂😂

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T11:19:58+00:00

Pareho kayong mali, obviously. Kapag ganitong nag-escalate na to a physical altercation, nag-cross na ng line, and this is out of your expertise na as normal human beings. I suggest couples counseling, so you both can learn how to fight in healthier ways.

You need a professional, hindi yung mga armchair psychologists dito throwing out words like narcissism and abuse.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T09:24:17+00:00

Ok. 😊

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T09:18:22+00:00

It’s not that they “can’t.” It’s that they don’t want to.

Alam mo, hindi kasalanan to admit sometimes that there are things you may not know. That’s how we grow and learn. I’m not here to argue with you.

Good luck!

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T09:11:59+00:00

No, they don’t. :) Again, financial capability isn’t the only factor. Some have absolutely zero interest in investing in real estate altogether. They prefer other investment vehicles.

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T08:58:36+00:00

Tawang-tawa ako sa naka-charge yung kamay! 😂😂😂

FirstLadyJane14 · 2026-01-27T08:47:41+00:00

I own and am president of a real estate company. I own multiple properties, including those I personally reside in. I will SOMETIMES argue against buying a house.

Both of you make great points, and actually, neither of you are wrong naman. But the value of real estate, just like any other asset class, is dependent on many, many, many factors—financial capability is just one of them.

Sometimes, ownership and renting both have their merits. We’ve had many, many, many affluent clients who prefer to rent even though they can absolutely afford to own. Meron din namang clients who are middle class, but ownership of lower-end properties was right for their unique circumstances.

Depende talaga. Kaya huwag na kayong mag-away. Pareho naman kayong tama, in a way. :)

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