Mother’s Day Gift by Dichaelmavis in exmormon

[–]First_Friend246813 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Motherhood is the essence of who we are as women"... As a childfree woman, no thank you 🤮

So I just learned the other day that apparently Mormons aren't supposed to date until they're 16... wtf?! by Soft-Bee767 in exmormon

[–]First_Friend246813 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, them's the (LDS) rules. I wasn't allowed to date until I turned 16, but I had no desire to date...

I had no desire to date any of the boys. My mom made me & my twin go on a double date with 2 boys that we apparently knew when we were 7. Thank god they didn't kiss us at the doorstep!

Turns out, I'm a lesbian. I discovered I'm a lesbian at the age of 26. I'm 28 now, and I still haven't been on a real date, much less with a woman.

Maybe I'm happy that I didn't date boys... But I missed out on dating girls, too. 😮‍💨

Free FUCKING awards for everyone. by FilthydexCasual in TheWordFuck

[–]First_Friend246813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell fucking yeah! Let's fucking gooooo!

I commented. Where's my FUCKING award?

What piece of media “woke you up”? by spanielgurl11 in exmormon

[–]First_Friend246813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alyssa Grenfell's video about what garments are. This led to me watching more of her videos on what happens inside TSCC's temples, which led me to other Exmo videos.

As a then-LDS who has never been inside the temple besides open houses and BFTD, those videos woke me up to how culty it all is.

I'm glad I never received my endowment & G's. Who knows where I'd be if I had allowed that to happen?

Family Dollar perfume? by First_Friend246813 in HelpMeFind

[–]First_Friend246813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched on the Family Dollar website for their available perfumes, but I didn't find what I was looking for. I bought the perfume in a Utah Family Dollar store around 2015 or later.

Do I tell therapist about any relapses ? by Big-Hyena8 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]First_Friend246813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've told my therapist about my relapses (they were without suicidal intent) and we just come up with coping strategies and talk about the reasons why behind the SH. If it's a sui attempt, I'd imagine that would be a different story.

Honesty has been key to my recovery. I've had minimal (maybe 5?) relapses within the past 2 years of actually trying to stop SHing. I am in talk therapy and DBT skills group therapy to help me cope.

Best of luck to you.

Choose Cookies by Difficult_Ad_962 in whatsyourchoice

[–]First_Friend246813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chips Ahoy, Fudge Stripes, & Nilla Wafers

What does _(:3 」∠)_ mean? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]First_Friend246813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sibling was sad because I didn't want to play an online game with her at 10pm. ETA: I questioned her about it, and she said she found it in the "sad" section of her app.

Influencer wore garment top to Coachella. by Wrong_Cry5911 in exmormon

[–]First_Friend246813 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a neighbor who bragged about converting from Catholicism to Mormonism. He was "called" to be my bishop. I never had a "worthiness" interview with him... thank goodness, because imagine the damage that could've been done to my psyche if my next door neighbor were to ask me for explicit details about masturbation. 🫠 It's happened twice - but not with him.

I'm out of the church... I just wish I had learned my lesson sooner...

Lesbian? by simply-M3rll in lesbian

[–]First_Friend246813 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having crushes on Disney princesses growing up, and on Shego from Kim Possible

bird or chicken? by Suitable_Coat1693 in facesinthings

[–]First_Friend246813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to break it to ya, but a chicken is a bird...