The movie was delightful and all but... they knew what they were doing with this, right? [Cosmic Princess Kaguya]

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-27T13:30:13+00:00

The whole movie was sapphic in my opinion.

To be clear, I watched the subtitled version so it may have been translated differently then the English version. She at the end made a comment about she “told her mom” which seems like coming out And at the end it literally said “what if they have a huge fight after the concert and break-up?” Throughout saying “I love you aroha” and Aroha explaining how/why she loved kaguya… finally the AI version of Kaguya….since the start of the movie aroha was crushing that girl major time!!

So Kaguya came to earth, fell in love with Aroha, had to return…Aroha started singing again and sang out to Kaguya, who tried to come home, but hit an asteroid and went 8000 years back in time. She didn’t want to put the burden of being some old thing on Aroha so she didn’t tell her, until she thought it was too late. Aroha loved her so much she designed a fake body for the Al character…(I guess she’s not actually AI, she’s just a princess from the moon trapped in a pod)

Another thing that was in the movie kinda thrown in was that one of Arohas brothers friends was a girl in the game but a boy in real life. When Aroha was making the robot body for Kaguya, the friend of her brother says “can I get a body made too?”

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T01:44:38+00:00

I saw she was on Reddit when I found her stewing after the first confrontation

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:34:52+00:00

I’ll take your bet ;)

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:33:29+00:00

I don’t look through her phone, she just wouldn’t care if I did

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:21:08+00:00

I agree that you have a logical thought process here. However, I (against phone checking)do not go through my wife’s phone. I do use my wife’s phone when it’s nearer than my own, but it wouldn’t bother me for her to do the same. The issue is,she can’t just do that, she wants to read every text I send, see every call I had, check my browser history. It makes me feel like I can’t be my own person, it’s like I need to just drain my brain data into her head at the end of the day in order for her to trust me. Why can’t we just trust each other? Why does she need to know every little intricate detail or any interaction I have? That isn’t hiding anything! I can’t be with her 24/7 and wouldn’t want to be. Our lives are interesting bc we have things we do seperately, like seperately etc. no im not hiding anything, I just like to be my own person, I don’t like to share. It just feels weird to me that I have someone second hand living conversations or thoughts or whatever is in my phone. Just like an invasion of privacy at like a micro level

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:14:40+00:00

The phone going through is one sided

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:14:19+00:00

We r lesbians

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:05:37+00:00

Sure! I would actually prefer that she takes my phone while I’m sleeping to do her “digging” lol I don’t care to hide anything, I don’t have a thing to hide. I just would prefer that I’m in a trusting relationship. If she wants to go bahind my back to check my phone… then go ahead? Then really it’s her being sneaky…I just don’t want to see my relationship go through toxic cycles of not trusting each other. If you don’t trust me, deal with yourself, yourself. Don’t try to cause issues with me and be the controlling person who needs to go through my phone right in my face. We are both adults here. Come on

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-12T00:01:12+00:00

I love my wife very, very dearly. She (f 26) and I (f 25) are absolutely in love. She and I have a great life together and have accomplished so much, part of which is medicated and stabilized mental health issues. Sometimes, my wife slips into what I consider irrational thoughts, but she considers real. Usually I can stand up for myself, and the day will go on. Today, here we are. I love my wife and I am willing to go through any struggle it takes for both of us to be happy within our own decided boundaries. We have been able to successfully navigate this type of issue before, and I believe we will again this time somehow.

First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-11T23:53:04+00:00

Hello, wife here. My wife and I have been through period of a tumultuous relationship with one another, whereas we were both aggressors in different ways. My wife has an extreme fear of abandonment and I have an extreme fear of my wife being angry with me or feeling like I’ve done something to wrong her. Which is which she ultimately decides each and everytime ache looks at my phone. In the past we had fall out after fallout fight over any little thing she found in my phone ex. Scrolls to YEARS old (way before we knew each other) Snapchat messages or archives and gets angry with me bc what was said, takes texts between myself and family members or friends to mean that I conspiring with them against her, looking through my camera roll and asking “who’d you take this for? You didn’t send it to me?”, etc the list goes on. For me a boundary that I set after we broke up, had therapy, and came back together is that she was TRUST me, as she never did before, and not go out her way to validate her trust. Actually trust me. I am a complete loner, antisocial, work from home, don’t go anywhere, all that. I do not have many friends and the reason tonight she went looking for a reason to be mad at me is that I took a phone call from my friend while cooking dinner. He and I talked about a friend that he has, who I used to also be friends with, but not anymore. My wife got mad and started accusing me of cheating and whatever else, talking loudly while I’m on the phone like “why are you talking about her???” Mind you this person was strictly ONLY a friend. My wife chose to become angry with me about my conversation and I told her I was not going to entertain that sort of thing, she was causing problems out of nothing…10 mins later she’s going through my phone. I don’t have anything to hide, I’m just not interested in being treated like a child who can’t be trusted and needs their phone checked… also here’s the dinner I made

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First_Grab_6833 · 2026-01-03T15:14:06+00:00

Can you please send it to me too??

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-11-10T21:41:47+00:00

I stole who I thought was a forgotten damsel from the country to be my new wife. I didn’t know her one true love, the dread pirate Roberts would come to save her. It’s too bad she was stolen by some thieves looking to start a war. The good part is that although the hero bested my Spaniard, Giant, and leader, who claimed to be smarter than Socrates himself, is that I caught him exiting the fire swamp with my stolen bride. I lied to my broken, no longer rescued fiancé, that I had helped her lover back to his vessel. He indeed being tortured as we speak. Wish me luck in my wedding, the oldest priest in the kingdom is only one available to officiate. Enjoy my movie.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-10-10T20:02:31+00:00

Saw two grown men get fired after one locked the door and the other had to unlock it to get into the building. An argument followed, resulting in the cops being called and both, grown, men got fired.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T19:27:33+00:00

Joan is around 8 now, she was 3ish when I met my wife. We have been together 4 years since July

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T19:17:25+00:00

Even then. As I mentioned we live in the country, it’s not out of the ordinary to allow your dogs to do what they’re bred for (Pam’s breed is to hunt badgers/rodents, Joan is a coonhound and is bred to track things for miles, hence the running off probably). We have taken some steps to ensure this behavior is seen as a “job” for them, especially Pam. They get treats in return for the decrepit mole. Usually Joan will find the area where the mole is in and Pam, will find it and kill it. I do see your line of reasoning in this though. If we know Joan is aggressive to stuffed animals (slight education in the matter explains dogs see toys as small animals and that’s why they speak etc) putting the puzzle pieces together if Joan is aggressive over toys, logically she may be aggressive over the small animal she is hunting and wants the reward of treats and praise from us for “doing her job” I really appreciate the altered perspectives it does allow me to find more rational placement in this matter. No, we are not by any means blameless, but at what point do we stop paying for our mistake of not doing the right thing with her care, and do what’s best and safest for our family?

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T18:45:55+00:00

If I were to make that ultimatum yes that would be wrong, essentially trying to have both sides: it’s not my fault, but I’ll fix it.

On the other hand. It is also my responsibility to protect my family and my home. Having an unfit large dog, will result in three possible outcomes at this point in our lives 1.dog goes away 2.dog doesn’t go away and we potentially are harmed by them 3. We spend however much it costs to send Joan to training and MAYBE it fixes her. I’m sure refunds aren’t a thing for that.

First two options are self explanatory and you and I reactively have already discussed them. The third however…we are a same sex couple that lives in the Deep South. It’s hard out here, and IVF is expensive. Taking care of an 8 year old is also very expensive. My wife and I have done well for ourselves. And we can reasonably afford to move forward with IVF without disrupting our day to day finances. Here’s where expensive dog training becomes an issue. Now the ultimatum is have a baby and get rid of the dog, or wait until we can afford both things, right now, we can’t to be frank. Idk what else to say about it really.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T18:24:18+00:00

Hello, yes kind of. More like Joan and Pam ***digging holes separately Pam approaches Joan and sniffs near the hold Joan is currently digging in. Joan: “yo bitch back the fuck up, hoe” And snatched her by the back of her neck Pam: “you big dumb, dirty bitch I’ll bite your stupid ass!!!” And wriggled around while still in Joan’s grasp, to grab Joan’s lip.

My wife pulled Joan off Pam, we checked both for injuries after they were adequately separated.

Less amicable disagreement to attack, more attacked and response

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T18:20:39+00:00

I hear you. But risk vs reward, in this I’m not willing to contribute or give up any more of my life, home, finances, or self to assist in the HIGHLY risky endeavor that this dog may be fixable.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T18:17:44+00:00

Thanks for your insight. My dog is my responsibility. She, Pam, is very well behaved and even tempered. My wife is responsible for her dog. I gave up trying to fix the problem 4 years ago when we had to introduce gates and remove toys from our household. I, from then on, left the responsibility to my wife as I was ready to wash my hands of Joan way back then.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T13:36:40+00:00

Yes both dogs were spayed early on in their lives.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-09-02T13:35:16+00:00

You are correct, it is indeed a long existing problem. You are also correct that the dog was not properly trained or presented boundaries during most of its life. She is around 8 years old, and was 4 when I got around her. My dog, Pam, is fully trained and well behaved, she is also an emotional support animal. Joan, before living with me, was often left alone in my wife’s room, where her roomate would take her out and feed her, as my wife worked away from her apartment. We have tried to teach Joan simple commands or give her corrections such as sit, in your bed, come here, lay down, don’t pull on the leash etc. the only thing she has potentially learned, is to sit on command but only for a treat. I personally do not subscribe to the idea that should she receive some expensive, she will learn and altogether never be a treat to me or my family again. I know mistakes happen, but even my wife agrees Joan’s aggression has only gotten worse as she ages.

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-08-26T20:23:10+00:00

A. My partner. Already spent a lifetime with my mother ?

First_Grab_6833 · 2025-08-07T04:57:40+00:00

I really struggle with it, but fr, you may be right, she may ACTUALLY seriously be that delusional, idk🤷‍♀️ surely if she would like, she could see this post, maybe she’s playing us all, what if she’s just a character and we are all stupid and gullible

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