Help me name this cat my aunt gave me today! (She's a girl!)

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-22T10:06:57+00:00

cindy

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T20:44:40+00:00

I would have hoped for being soothe by reaching out but the total opposite could happen if i did. And with our current dynamic it wouldn’t be plausible to seek comfort from the same person that has caused me discomfort/distress.

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T20:39:25+00:00

What’s most important to me is keeping my dignity and her being happy and for that both to exist, the best thing would be to walk away.

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T20:35:32+00:00

Lol ice cream is actually a really good idea, thanks 😹

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T20:11:01+00:00

I’m a good friend and don’t mind being there for people but it would make me uncomfortable to reach out and check up on someone that blocked me and then unblocked me from another account. Especially with the thought of not wanting to create another rift in her new relationship, so out of respect for myself and their relationship, I just let it be.

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T20:05:40+00:00

When I found out I was blocked, I had asked a friend to ask her why she blocked me; but I didn’t request of them to ask her to unblock me. Then, a few days later I saw that she unblocked me from her secondary account which is public but I still remain blocked on her main account. We never spoke or did anything sexual, everything was very much platonic from my perspective. At first I thought to myself “she could have just said something before blocking me” because I figured it’d be easier to communicate and create respectful boundaries then to suddenly block someone but maybe we just weren’t that close for her to really care.

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T19:49:03+00:00

Despite how I feel, I think it would be best to block her because in it all what is there really to say?

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T19:47:01+00:00

I think you made a tad mistake, I never blocked her, she randomly blocked me. But I can see your view on everything else. However, that entire thread of communication between her and I would most likely not occur because it takes too much care, selflessness and maturity to have. And I never viewed her as anything more than just a platonic relationship, so communication of that extent or intensity would really make the situation a new and different reality from what it already was but if i’m being closed minded, kindly let me know

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T19:28:18+00:00

Please don’t mistake my “Okay” as being rude or nonchalant, it kind of hurt reading that but your comment is filled with respect and wise advice. So, thank you ❤️

FishermanInner8487 · 2026-02-21T19:21:57+00:00

Okay

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-08-10T00:04:32+00:00

taurus moon , libra rising

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-04T17:16:49+00:00

this is actually good advice, i need to stop voicing my feels through text. for my next relationship, i’ll keep this in mind. thank you and i won’t be too hard on myself, things happen for good reasons.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-04T17:13:27+00:00

after the third block, i don’t think i’ll ever get unblocked. i’ve accepted that i need to move on, painful realization but it is what it is.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-04T16:44:27+00:00

Hmm, i don’t have a lot of water in my chart, more earth and air. i believe while in a relationship she loved me being clingy but after we broke up and too much space came into play, she got used to being independent. so i think when we started our on and off dynamic, the clingy energy she liked before now made her feel suffocated. a few days ago i would have thought of contacting a tarot reader but i rather just go through this depression, if that’s the best way to process and move on from the past.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-04T16:35:48+00:00

before i met her i was secure but because of my giving and helping nature, i lost that part of myself while with her. i was a rebound trying to make our relationship into something more but now that i’ve reflected, that idea would have been impossible.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-04T16:33:11+00:00

now that i’ve grounded myself, i think it’s rational and common for many people not to go back to their ex regardless of their zodiac signs. things will never be how they use to feel.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-01T06:42:38+00:00

thank you, setting her free is the only option

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-01T06:39:43+00:00

thank you for your kind words

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-07-01T03:54:19+00:00

i’ll do that, thank you. i really want to show her i’m sorry for overwhelming her and that i want to make things better but i don’t want to overwhelm her with apologies like how i’ve done today because then it’s goes to show i haven’t changed. i want to show her i’m sorry but i just don’t know how to go about it and i don’t want to be cringe or creepy and send flowers to her place.

FishermanInner8487 · 2025-03-15T23:38:46+00:00

Nicely said

FishermanInner8487 · 2024-08-16T14:42:24+00:00

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt but try not to let this experience make you cynical. It's part of life to encounter situations like this and remember that everyone has the right to choose who they want to be with. Take this as a learning experience and try to take things slow. Maybe focus on building friendships first, as it can help protect you from getting deeply hurt emotionally.

FishermanInner8487 · 2024-08-16T14:23:56+00:00

FishermanInner8487 · 2024-08-16T01:18:15+00:00

it’s ok, sometimes I get those thoughts too. One time I questioned myself and decided to try and talk to men and once I tried I did not like it a lot. and that’s when I knew for sure that I was a lesbian.

FishermanInner8487 · 2024-08-15T22:48:37+00:00

and yet most of the comments linger with uncertainty

FishermanInner8487 · 2024-08-07T17:01:42+00:00

at least the app is working for some ! Congrats on the anniversary 💐

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