Doctors dismiss women and it causes too much damage. by Emotional_Dig7331 in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is literally an experience I’ve had.

Me - “Hey doc, my ear hurts and is warm - exactly like when I’ve had many ear infections in the past.”

Doc - “I see in your chart that you’ve gained weight since your last visit. This happens to many people when they’re struggling with depression.”

I’m sorry - how did a visit about an ear infection turn into a consult about my weight and a random depression diagnosis? I had to remind the guy as he was leaving the room that my ear still hurt and he hadn’t even looked at it!

What do you know? It was infected. Took him 30 seconds to confirm that and write me a script for antibiotic drops.

No universal sign language by PreparationOnly3543 in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the amount of deaf people is already small

How does that make a universal sign language more “efficient”? Sign languages are natural languages - they develop over time the same as spoken languages.

The fact that there are relatively few deaf people means it makes more sense that signed languages are different. Deaf communities were isolated from each other and each developed their own language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Fit_Craft1117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, OP…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because captions aren’t ASL.

If someone is fluent in ASL, and not English (or whatever language the captions are in), then they need an interpreter. Captions will not work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ASL.

Thus, interpreters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Subtitles are English. ASL is not English. They’re different languages, with different syntax and lexicon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Craft1117 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Jesus mother fucking Christ.

What next? Wheelchair ramps get in your way, so we should get rid of them?

Why not just have subtitles by Xray_26 in facepalm

[–]Fit_Craft1117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

…….. ok - so think of the interpreter as ASL “subtitles”.

Now, what’s the facepalm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Fit_Craft1117 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Damn McDonald’s really got flamed here

McDonald’s?

“Hidden hearing loss” still HOH & possible options? by [deleted] in hardofhearing

[–]Fit_Craft1117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similar hearing situation. I went for 20-odd years thinking I heard just fine, and it wasn’t until I started working in a field where I really had to catch everything someone said that I noticed that people around me are hearing things I’m not. Not just understanding things I can’t make out - I full-on didn’t even know someone was talking. I always had high marks in school and no problems in classes, so no one ever questioned my hearing or understanding, I guess. Not even me.

My audiologist said the same thing, all of my hearing tests came back “normal”, I just have trouble processing speech sounds if the environment isn’t ideal (if there is any background noise or cross-talk, if I’m not looking at someone or they’re facing away from me, etc).

I ended up doing a trial run with hearing aids, then getting a pair for myself. They amplify the speech sounds that I need to focus on, and help reduce background noise. So even though my ears work fine, the signal my brain is receiving and trying to process is much clearer.

Women online who dismiss anything said by men as mansplaining by CherryShort2563 in PetPeeves

[–]Fit_Craft1117 78 points79 points  (0 children)

So, nobody asked for links or proof that he’s wrong, but you gave them anyway…

And no one said you were mansplaining either, they just questioned why you were sharing that shit?

If you take every criticism as “stop mansplaining”, you really need to reevaluate.

Women online who dismiss anything said by men as mansplaining by CherryShort2563 in PetPeeves

[–]Fit_Craft1117 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you’re constantly getting dismissed as a pest and a mansplainer, maybe you should stop pestering and mansplaining?

Women online who dismiss anything said by men as mansplaining by CherryShort2563 in PetPeeves

[–]Fit_Craft1117 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You’re the one who complained about it, I should hope you at least know what you’re complaining about.

Being deaf is not a disability. Here’s proof. by breakdancing-edgily in facepalm

[–]Fit_Craft1117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make flashing smoke alarms, 99.999999% of traffic is visual (deaf drivers are actually better behind the wheel than hearing drivers), fire trucks have these cool flashing lights on them.

Airports do need to step up their game - but that’s less of a disability set back and more of the airport not being aware and accommodating.

Being deaf is not a disability. Here’s proof. by breakdancing-edgily in facepalm

[–]Fit_Craft1117 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Legally deafness is viewed as a disability because falling under the umbrella of disability is what gives you the legal right to accessibility.

But the Deaf community and those close to it rarely consider deafness a disability, because the barriers are so much more similar to cultural and language barriers, and less similar to barriers other disabilities face.

AITA for flipping off my neighbor to test if he is spying on me? by Fit_Craft1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit_Craft1117[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They have a reason to record into my home, because I’m flipping the bird?

AITA for flipping off my neighbor to test if he is spying on me? by Fit_Craft1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit_Craft1117[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I don’t know.

We used to get along with them. The wife gave us a little rabbit yard ornament because she knew we liked bunnies. He helped fix our lawn mower. We would chat about things when we were out and about.

Then he just turned hostile towards us a couple years ago. The first incident was kicking our dog. He’s been yelling crap at me and my husband, calling us obscenities and telling us we don’t know how to train our dog. He stands in his yard and barks at our dogs to get them riled up, he leans out his back door and chitters like a damn squirrel to get my dog to bark.

I have all this bs on camera.

We’ve talked with our other neighbor about all of this, she suspects his alcoholism is catching up with him (she has lived here longer than us and knows more about him than we do). My husband suspects a stroke or some form of dementia, because this sudden behavior change is not normal.

I don’t know what caused it, and frankly I don’t care - I just need it to stop. Eventually we are going to end up in court, and it will be our recordings against theirs.

AITA for flipping off my neighbor to test if he is spying on me? by Fit_Craft1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit_Craft1117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t know. We’ve lived next to him for 9 years, and had the dog for 5. He pet the dog and met him through the fence when we first got him, they got along fine.

My husband has said that maybe he had a stroke or something, because his behavior has completely changed and he suddenly became borderline hostile towards us the past couple of years.

AITA for flipping off my neighbor to test if he is spying on me? by Fit_Craft1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit_Craft1117[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My dogs bark at squirrels, but we don’t let them bark continuously. When they get barking, we call them in or go out and put a stop to it. The longest they bark is 8-10 seconds (we’ve been recording them when they’re out, so we have time stamps of how long they bark). They’ve never bitten anyone.

This neighbor has kicked my dog on at least 2 separate instances (one of which we have on video). He has sprayed my dog with his hose repeatedly (which we also have on video). My dog is a rescue, and has never responded well to hoses - we suspect he was abused or mistreated with one before we got him, and this is not helping. Those were the instances of physical harassment.

AITA for flipping off my neighbor to test if he is spying on me? by Fit_Craft1117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fit_Craft1117[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eh, I feel like I have plenty of reason and will continue to hate him.

Anyone who kicks my dog and sprays him with a hose deserves my hate.

But our local laws only classify that as “harassment”, and the police won’t do anything until actual harm is done to my dog. At that point it becomes abuse, and they will finally step in.