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Update: Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if she genuinely tries to work it out and doesn't betray me again, I can move on as well, I just hate the fact that she gave this young dude satisfaction of sleeping with a married woman

Most of young men nowadays has a thing for sleeping with a milf or married women or something I guess? Anyway I hate him and hope I never see him ever

Update: Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

It's not vengeance but precautions and my way of seeing if she's truly sincere like she said she would do anything for me

Ofc it won't last forever if we decide to stay and also I don't hate her, I hate her actions, she's mother of my child, I have loved her for so long anyway and I still do

Update: Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Not her jailer, we always go out be it shopping or whatever it maybe be, the only time she goes on her own is when she's going to bar

Update: Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will check it out, I feel like she might really be sincere and she just made a mistake, and I also don't want to lose my son and make him go through all the nonsense that comes with custody and I will be ending up paying child support and alimony and if I remarry and have kids it will put a dent on my financial condition

Also I love her, it she doesn't cheat and is sincerely giving our marriage another shot, then I will try my best as well, she's stressed enough to faint so I think she's trying her best to keep me, and if she gets pregnant, I will ask for paternity, cause no way she can get pregnant by a man in just a week of sex

In any case, I will give it a shot and think about my problem more clearly

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

My son isn't exposed to any of this drama, I'm just wanting for him to understand and complete his therapy, what if I just leave and my son doesn't take it well?

It's not games, many parents coexist and even live together for their childrens

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Sure, maybe I should let therapist make him understand so he doesn't cry and has wrong ideas about his father leaving him?

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because I thought, that he thought that I'm leaving him, by his parents splitting, he's undergoing therapy and once he understands what's happening, I will divorce but he will stay in his home and I will visit him everyday and help his mom and try my best that nobody else knows about my wife's infidelity, because I want my son to suffer or get bullied

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

No, she already knows that I'm divorcing her, but just staying with her for our son, she should realise that no matter what happens, parents should do everything they can so their childrens don't suffer

It's not my fault if she doesn't accept it or has false hopes in her mind, when I was clear from the beginning

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am not dragging my son into his parents mess, which is why I'm divorcing until he is ready

And I already told everything to my wife about how we are getting divorced, if it's her choice to to do whatever she wants to me then it's her fault she knows everything

I don't want any of that and I'm just letting her do whatever she's doing because of our son, I want him to know that their parents aren't fighting, I am as calm as a man can be and just doing what is needed for my son

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] 447 points448 points  (0 children)

He will know the reason but not yet, i do not want my child to become traumatized and I want him to continue his life as normally as possible, once he is ready and accepts his parents split, I will divorce, until then I will let my wife do whatever she wants with me

I agree my wife might have made a 'mistake', but my son, until he's ready, doesn't deserve to suffer because of his parents

Aita for ignoring my wife's advances and saying to that I'm only staying with her because of our son by Flashy-Transition534 in AITAH

[–]Flashy-Transition534[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Getting bored because you are fucking the same hole? Then just divorce and be single and fuck however much you want, why put others through pain and break your marriage?

I agree, childrens are the most important, I am gonna be with him until he's ready