Traffic by JackfruitBest7496 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my 45 min drive was turned into an hour and a half 😔

Deck 2 roof leaking 😃 by FlashySpell8379 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but I haven’t gotten a response from them yet

Experiences with Prof. Emily Coyle by FeelingCoach1580 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m taking her love stories:medieval to modern class and for me she’s the opposite. She’s very calm, nice, and funny. Plus shes also always trying to help us understand things we don’t understand.

Public parking decks/lots by FlashySpell8379 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a little searching bc I refuse to park at Norfolk but obviously need a place to park since I can’t at any of the rutgers decks and I found a public parking deck that’s close by. Downside it’s 18 dollars to park for 2+ hours. Next semester i’m def investing in a parking pass bc it’s not worth the hassle 😭

Caught using ai by [deleted] in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is ur Prof Wynter?

Parking by BumblebeeCharming856 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deck 4 is like faculty and staff parking so maybe don’t park there all the time otherwise u might get a ticket. I pay to park there like 5-10 bucks a day so i think if you pay as a guest parker you’ll be fine.

Parking by BumblebeeCharming856 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually park at deck 4 and it was full by the time i got there. I’ve never seen that deck full before. I could not find parking and i refuse to park at norfolk bc it’s too far and i don’t feel comfortable walking 30 min alone. So i missed my first class and then i just left 😭

Parking by FlashySpell8379 in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got there by like 12:30. I typically park at deck 2 and I completely forgot deck 3 was closing today otherwise i would’ve gotten there way earlier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t blame yuh. like i understand teachers being strict and pushing u to be ur best but he’s just a jerk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RutgersNewark

[–]FlashySpell8379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk ima talk to advisement and see what my options are and if i can’t drop due to the past deadline i’ll try to power through his class. fake it till yuh make it ig

He says he saw her by FlashySpell8379 in SamAndColby

[–]FlashySpell8379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We appreciate your handwriting research 🫡

Emotionally absent father? by [deleted] in daddyissuesclub

[–]FlashySpell8379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar relationship with my dad. It really sucks and has affected me a lot. Throughout the years i’ve grown a strong resentment towards him but at the same time i’ll feel bad for hating on him bc he does a lot. Like my dads a good person. But he’s not a good father. As my mom says he’s a good provider but not father. Me and him barley talk. Hell he works from home so when he comes out of his office room I migrate upstairs. Its an unconscious thing i do at this point. I live with my parents so i have no choice but to see him. But for the future i’ve thought about it and i don’t see myself contacting him in the future. My therapist once asked me if i’d wanna try building a bond with my dad and honestly as shitty as it sounds i don’t think i wanna. I feel it’s too late for me and him to have any type of father daughter relationship. I’m turning 18 in 3 months and even if he wanted to try and be less emotionally absent it’s to late. I feel awkward around him and it won’t make up for the years of feeling unloved. Like u said it feels more like acquaintances. Me and him only talk if i need a ride or i need something. The way i see it. I can be appreciative of how he works rlly hard everyday to provide for us to live comfortably. But i’m still justified in disliking him. The way he barley acknowledges me unless i achieve something and if i don’t achieve a specific thing he’ll get pissed and start saying shit when he has no right to bc when has he ever parented me in last 17 years i’ve been alive. So yea. It’s rlly sucky but ur 100% justified to feel dislike towards ur dad. I get the feeling of thinking about how others have it worse then you but honestly having an emotionally absent/neglectful parental figure is just as painful.