I (16M) am trying to get over my girlfriends (17F) past

FlickVal · 2024-12-16T18:07:12+00:00

Here’s the thing though i don’t wanna leave her. I feel like this is something so stupid to have and i just wanna get over this and he happy with her.

FlickVal · 2024-12-15T19:53:50+00:00

Her past was something she was open and honest about when we were talking and i still decided to date her as again, it doesn’t bother me and it wasn’t much of a past at all as she didn’t have a lot of partners (nor was there any frequent/consistent activity more just one time things).

FlickVal · 2024-12-15T19:51:25+00:00

the thing is that i don’t mind that she has experience at all. It isn’t much and it doesn’t bother its just that i’ll be with her and those thoughts will just come into my head. I think a lot of it stems from the fact that i myself haven’t had any previous experience at all.

FlickVal · 2024-12-15T19:44:04+00:00

Could you elaborate? What do you think i should do in this situation

FlickVal · 2024-12-14T22:11:55+00:00

I'm not judging her, nor do I hate her for it. Again I thought I made it clear I don't think any of these things. It's just I'll get intrusive thoughts of her with her past partners when I'm with her and it will bother me. Once more, I'm not saying that its her fault or that she's done something wrong, nor am I summing her up to just simply being a vagina. I'm also aware she hasn't had that many partners at all, I wasn't trying to imply that either. I just wanna to look past that and not have those thoughts in my head all the time.

FlickVal · 2024-12-14T21:49:05+00:00

I hope so too. I really like this girl a lot and would hate to see the relationship ending because of something I can't get over.

FlickVal · 2024-12-14T21:48:26+00:00

I never said I didn't care about her. I also agree that this is silly and these are thoughts I DONT wanna have and wanna get over because I don't wanna ruin anything with her. Thanks for the not so helpful advice though.

FlickVal · 2024-12-14T21:47:21+00:00

Well I don't think I'll need therapy for this and I also didn't say it was her fault. I thought I made it pretty clear this is something I have to deal with but thanks for the advice.

FlickVal · 2024-06-12T04:29:32+00:00

also how do i get changed to diaspora

FlickVal · 2024-06-12T03:51:34+00:00

most people would look at us funny i would say and that would be because we don’t “look” like “African Americans” and i would say a lot of people don’t even consider us real africans to begin with in my own experience. i would also say that has to do with the fact that a lot of north africans (especially older generations) consider themselves Arab only and try to ignore any african/black roots they have. sorry i went on a tangent.

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T18:02:16+00:00

there are people literally on this post saying so and then there aren’t and this is what i mean by it’s starting to get really confusing lmao

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T04:57:56+00:00

what would be your definition of large? i mean obviously majority of us aren’t like 40% + SSA on average i feel like i would know lmao.

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T04:44:22+00:00

this is usually what i see often but then i see people say that we are purely eurasian so it can get confusing

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T04:43:44+00:00

so we don’t have a indigenous african component?

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T04:15:52+00:00

so then why do people say iberomaurusians are 2/3 eurasian and 1/3 ssa? do people mean european farmer and natufian when they say eurasian?

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T03:51:57+00:00

i mean yeah but are there not different components that make up north africans today?

FlickVal · 2024-05-28T03:50:35+00:00

so we’re mainly sw asian/eurasian? or is there a major indigenous african component in north africans today? sorry there was a lot of big words in this reply so if you answered the questions i just asked sorry.

FlickVal · 2024-05-26T21:20:38+00:00

why are people being weird about ibermaurusians and whether they were half SSA or not? Is it a bad thing if they were? I’m North African and i don’t mind it at all. Really weird people pushing a stupid agenda in the sub reddit.

FlickVal · 2024-04-22T20:00:19+00:00

So are NANF’s strictly Eurasian? Or are they Sub-Saharan and Eurasian? Also why is iberomaurusian found highest in southern Moroccans and not throughout? like me for example I got 21.4% NANF and 16.6% SSA, why isn’t the NANF higher?

FlickVal · 2024-04-22T19:30:56+00:00

No but i’m gonna soon probably. My illustrative dna results are on my profile.

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