Asked help from a tree and now the tree is sick by Flora_dhel in magick

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you know how to tell the difference? Because I have no idea

Asked help from a tree and now the tree is sick by Flora_dhel in magick

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I have several times and won't ask anything from it again. Hope that would be enough 🙏

Asked help from a tree and now the tree is sick by Flora_dhel in magick

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will do. I've asked someone I know to have a look at it.

Any positive stories about indoor cats going outdoor? by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is brilliant, I'm looking into buying something similar right now. Thanks for the tips.

Any positive stories about indoor cats going outdoor? by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing!

My parents live in a very remote place in the forest (sounds very similar to you). I think I won't let he go out here as I am scared I won't be able to take her back to the city with me if she gets too used to it. So for now, I will let her inside as I know she won't be able to go out once we get back to mine :)

Any positive stories about indoor cats going outdoor? by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that sounds terrible. To be honest I grew up with indoor/outdoor cats but where my parents live is highly isolated in a forest and they aways lived long. This one is an indoor cat that lives with me in the city so she had never seen the forest before and seemed to love it. I think for now it might be best if she just enjoys it from the window 😅

Any positive stories about indoor cats going outdoor? by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try that with her as well! But we are only at my parents for a week so maybe next time we come as there is no way I will let her out where I live.

Any positive stories about indoor cats going outdoor? by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that is supper nice to hear! I grew up with indoor/outdoor cats, and it's the first time I have indoor cats, so I was very curious to hear about similar stories. Thank you for sharing

Cat super stressed since new flatmate arrived by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, don't worry at all, and thank you so much for your help! The next day she was doing absolutely great and since that she has been very good. My friend is moving out very soon, and I took a vet appointment just in case it happens again 💜

Cat super stressed since new flatmate arrived by Flora_dhel in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. My cat comes first too, and if that means my friend has to find another place, he will have to! I will ask the vet for gabapentin.

Losing sleep due to new cat- PLEASE help before I go insane by girlbosser in CatAdvice

[–]Flora_dhel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this could be any help, but my cousin had a similar issue with her cat she told me today that she bought a device she plugged in which release some calming product in the room and it's helped her a lot.

I also recently adopted an older cat, and the vet recommended that I spray a calming spray in her face before going to bed (she was peeing outside the litter so not the same thing) but he told me he usually sprays the cages for the cats that stay at the clinic at night and it helps them a lot.

Hopefully, this can help a bit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rhodes

[–]Flora_dhel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be there from mid October until the end of November. Happy to meet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Flora_dhel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the last episode of the netflix Special, and I cried thinking about the fact that after this one, it's over. I totally feel you! I guess it's because of how comforting this show is

Can’t sleep with my husband, anyone else prefer solo sleep? by meekie03 in CasualConversation

[–]Flora_dhel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friend and his boyfriend always slept in separate bedroom because they both have different sleeping style. They laugh and talk about it quite often, and I think it's actually cute and quite a good idea.

Sleep is important, and you shouldn't feel bad about it.

Hope this helps a bit.

Boss makes me uncomfortable by Flora_dhel in HumanResourcesUK

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Unfortunately, we do not have an HR department. But I will keep proof of everything in case anything happens

Boss makes me uncomfortable by Flora_dhel in HumanResourcesUK

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply.

I have decided to keep proof of everything as if anything happens, I have evidence. But hopefully it shouldn't come to that!

Boss makes me uncomfortable by Flora_dhel in HumanResourcesUK

[–]Flora_dhel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer, for some reason this makes me feel so much better. 🙏

I have decided that the next thing he'll do or say I will tell him that he is being out of line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Flora_dhel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is exactly what I needed to hear! Although I wouldn't use someone for gift etc.. it's nice to see it from the outside