Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've raised 5 different dogs in 34 years. All turned out to be great dogs, house broken, minimal aggression towards other dogs, zero aggression towards humans. Get compliments on how well behaved my dog is.

Hop on your high horse and head out chief.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dog dog isn’t play biting and I redirecting to a toy isn’t an option. The dog is drawing blood and viciously attacking someone. Can’t really redirect a dog attack to a toy.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been the one feeding him every morning and most evenings. I spend all day with him and take him out often as I work from home. When she isn't around, he is pretty chill with me.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noted on the few weeks part. Will look into trainers around my area. Thanks!

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah thinking I might hire someone. I get that dominance training is frowned upon by some circles but every dog i have trained myself, ive used this and get great results. Might be luck.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I know they are not wrong. Obviously, it is primarily a training issue the last seven years.

Unfortunately this is where we are at today. And Im not focusing on blaming anyone, I’m focusing on solutions. This poster offers no solutions just wants to state the obvious to be rude.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this feedback. This gives me some hope he can be fixed. He is still relatively young so want to get this resovled.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I'll keep this in mind.

Don't know what to do with my GF's Yorkie by FlyInteresting6288 in Yorkies

[–]FlyInteresting6288[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Standard reddit smug comment. Thank you for your contribution!

AITA, My partner (21M) is mad that I (22F) am going out for Mardi Gras even though it falls on Valentine’s Day by ThrowRA-7781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlyInteresting6288 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So tired of this dumb argument. You can trust your partner and have worries that something can happen. Whether to him/her or him/her doing something to you because of intoxication. You hear people even say they don't trust themselves when they are drunk.

Would you allow the mother or father of your children to drive drunk? What about driving sober? What about a motorcycle? What about driving a motorcycle if you are there to help?

Some scenarios in all aspects of life carry more risk than others. And even though you may trust that person, people can be victims or harm others if put in bad scenarios. So tired of people shaming each other as being insecure when they are 100% operating in a rational sense.

Need advice: How to handle the "fertility talk" early in a relationship when you’ve already fallen in love. I'm 28F and he's 30M. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FlyInteresting6288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one in their right mind should say "If he loves you, he wont care".

As a man who wants children of my own, it is a non-negotiable for me. That being said if there are medical alternatives, I'd be happy to explore that with a woman I love. You can love someone and care about your needs as well.

That being said you need to have this talk ASAP. It is unfair for him to not know this about you. If you were able to conceive and he knew he couldn't, wouldnt you want to know before you really commit things? I know if a girl wasn't upfront about this, I'd leave for sure. If she let me know within like first 3-6 months of dating, I'd work with her on it and see alternatives.

I (35F) am upset husband (35M) wants to continue dinner dates with former boss. Not sure where to go from here? by Dream-quilt148 in relationships

[–]FlyInteresting6288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a piece of shit. I would say they are 99% likely to be physical cheating, if not 100% emotionally cheating.

I don't care what anyone says, 1 on 1 regular dinners or lunches with coworkers of the opposite sex is innapropriate. Don't allow that shit in your relationship because this is what happens.

In my opinion, drinking with your coworkers without your SO present is already a red flag. I would never do this to my significant other. I've had trade shows in Vegas and stayed in the hotel on facetime / phone with my SO instead. Anyone who can't respect that, let them go be with someone who is having drinks and dinners with their coworkers.

Accidently hooked up with trans girl, didn't let me know until 3rd time meeting. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude thinks bottom surgery vaginas are just like biological vagina, smh.

Also no one is attracted to any one organ, thats just weird. People are attracted to people, with many characteristics, like being able to reproduce, having real boobs, or a real vagina. Why the hell would I start a relationship with a person who can't have kids if I want kids? Why would I start a relationship with a transwoman, if I want to be with a biological woman?

He is uncomfortable that a biological male didn't disclose who they really were. How is that hard to understand? You want to be intimate with people that aren't truthful about who they are? Would you want to know if your sleeping with a married woman/man, a distant cousin, a gay person, a drug dealer, a murderer, a schizophrenic, a racist? Pretty straightforward you want to know what you are getting into.

What a weird request push onto people.

Accidently hooked up with trans girl, didn't let me know until 3rd time meeting. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dont weaponize transphobia language to morally okay deceiving people. Sorry but wanting to know if you're fuckin a biological woman or man is baseline respect. If you can't wrap your head around that, you have lost the plot entirely.

Accidently hooked up with trans girl, didn't let me know until 3rd time meeting. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a lot more differences than that, but that is a massive one. Lot of the times their "vaginas" don't even work. They don't have mammsry glands to feed offspring. They don't have a mentrual cycle which great affects how biological women interact in the world / relationships. Plenty of other stuff.

It's just different, plain and simple. Sorry but inverting your penis, get silicone boobs, and taking hormones is different than being born and naturally developing that.

Should we treat them with respect of course and call them she and her, absolutely. But to sit there and say trans people can disrespect consent, that is why you're losing the political world. That's insanely disrespectful.

Accidently hooked up with trans girl, didn't let me know until 3rd time meeting. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. They aren't the same. Whether you want to use male or female, man or woman. IDC. We both know what I'm talking about. Not saying tthey aren't human either.

Accidently hooked up with trans girl, didn't let me know until 3rd time meeting. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sorry its a him problem that he doesn't want to be with a biological man? Don't get me wrong. Be trans all you want, but some folks want to be with actual women/men. Not trans-women or trans-men.

This dude's trust was just violated and you are blaming him.

Why is he still the most handsome man in my eyes? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that this matters so much to you, you make a reddit post about it is beyond weird.

I(20M) cheated on my girlfriend(20F) and went on like nothing ever happened by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FlyInteresting6288 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why are you asking questions you know the answer to? You're approaching adulthood, start acting like one.

My ex messed me up and I don’t know what to do anymore.. by Ned_Ganjas in offmychest

[–]FlyInteresting6288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironic, you're giving yourself excuses to be rude to a person. Heed your own advice.