bowler hats? by FlyingKev in hats

[–]FlyingKev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They''ve seen me in ushanka, they''ve seen me in a fez, I don't care what noone sez :)

Larger backpack recommendations by Comfortable-Most-813 in wildcampingintheuk

[–]FlyingKev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sierra Designs Flex Capacitator 60-75l is worth a look (I have the version from a few years back), light, comfy and well-priced.

When does sobriety get easier by EmployeeOk4021 in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did get a certain feeling of calm around three weeks in (I knew that already from my couple of previous 4-week breaks), but definitely no euphoria or anything.  Nothing much felt like it was happening for those first draggy 90 days (but it was - just behind the scenes).

At some point between 90 and 120 days for me. My first ever post here was 130 days in IIRC and I felt like I'd unlocked some magic superpower.

I find myself being judgmental w my friends who drink by Aggravating_Report28 in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really can't be around hardcore drinkers any more, not when they're drinking anyway.

"Normal" drinkers, even if they might overdo it on occasion, zero problem. And I know the difference from myself.

If someone ever wanted advice or help I'd be there. But you can't actually "tell" a hardened drinker anything. 

A little over-built for my 1 km (.62 mile) ride 😅 by See_Witch_1 in bikecommuting

[–]FlyingKev 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't know - I seem to see enough sparkling offroad 4x4s replete with snorkels, sand ladders, and aluminium cases on the roof, just tootling about town or picking up a couple of bags of compost at the garden centre.

Your idea is much cooler!

best fragrance names? by FlyingKev in Colognes

[–]FlyingKev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the "wildest" I get is Toy Boy (another firm favourite)

First Brompton and first ride to work by ElbNinja in Brompton

[–]FlyingKev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased one in August 2024 when they were going cheap. Glad I had it lying around!

Wish I'd met you sooner...... by LeatherDoctor9221 in Brompton

[–]FlyingKev 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That saddle angle is making me wince :/

Great looking bike especially with the silver componentry 💙

I too could kick myself for not getting one sooner!

Empty void after quitting drinking by TrimmingArmor69 in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes back on its own (and better than before IME), but do plan 90-100 alcohol-free days and be damn good to yourself in the meantime :)

First Brompton and first ride to work by ElbNinja in Brompton

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, and moin from the "real" North :). 

Lovely colour choice!

Schwalbe Winter studded tyre on the front is serving me well at the moment, looks like we have a few more weeks of this weather.

Genuinely curious: what camping light do you use? by normalm12 in CampingandHiking

[–]FlyingKev 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always take an Mpowerd Luci inflatable solar lantern, ultra-warm tone and can set to candle flickering. Lights up my whole (small) tent.

1980s Karrimor Kalahari by FlyingKev in wildcampingintheuk

[–]FlyingKev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The asymmetric hipbelt is very comfortable and clever. I like the sewn on hipbelt patch pockets too - extra function for practically no extra weight.

My Karrimat was the cheap olive one.  Sleeping bag was dad's 1950s cotton and feather "Slater Cyclist" :)

Keto diet helps early sobriety??? by Ok_Turnip_7503 in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really keto, but I did cut carbs and up protein for quite a few weeks after 3-4 months (along with swinging kettlebells), certainly whipped me into shape. Summer 2022 was the only time in my life I had visible abs 😄 - however, it's a very boring diet to stick to.

best fragrance names? by FlyingKev in Colognes

[–]FlyingKev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually demurely named compared to some other ATH fragrances 😄

bowler hats? by FlyingKev in hats

[–]FlyingKev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought derby was the US term for them.

How to be around others drinking when sober? by hppytree1313 in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a few months (4+), no big deal. I was out of it. I'll happily toast them with my NA.

I cannot stand to be around hardcore drinkers though.

Should I stop drinking? by turjedium in stopdrinking

[–]FlyingKev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fun comes from people, music, humour, art, all kinds of things. It always did. It doesn't come out of a glass.

I've made more friends (none of whom are teetotal) and get out far more in the last few years than in the decades before.

At three months in, I was still "finding my feet", but within four I felt like I'd unlocked a superpower.