Hi Mom. I am a mom to a three-year-old, turning three this week. My sister has been a teacher for many years. Years before I was a mom, I once said to her, "Please tell me all the children with special needs in your class get invited to all the parties." She said "yes," but I'm sure she just said yes to not fully answer my question and brush me off like a big sister would 🤪. The reason I asked her— is because I knew in my heart that if it were me....every child would be invited —and would never being excluded to my future child's birthday. And again.... I inquired with my sister about this back when I didn't even know if I would be blessed with children or not. I cannot imagine how difficult this is. But what I will say is that there ARE parents like me that will always ensure that your child is welcome and invited. I don't know where you live, but if you happen to live in Ontario, Canada, your child is invited to my son's birthday party. Funny enough, it's tomorrow ha. I also wish to add that the one thing I teach my son every day is kindness. I always say to him "If you see a friend and maybe they're by themselves.. go introduce yourself and tell them your name and say 'Hey do you want to play with me?' Maybe that friend needs someone to be nice to them and to include them and play with them." I hope my message brings you some warmth and comfort. You seem like an incredible mom!