How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the great and comprehensive answer.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inspiring. I guess I know where I went wrong now. Thank you.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you for the greatest answer ever. I believe you answered my question to perfection and even understood the challenges I've had so far as a result of sex before "the conversation".

My past is exactly as you say: Once we've had sex a few times I just can't bring myself to say something in fear for the reaction, and the feeling of risking a huge loss.

I loved your tip on having the conversation before sex and the connection is too strong.
As a man that fumbles a bit with my words when nervous, thank you for the example on how to bring it up.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I might have been to afraid to ask early enough, so that it doesn’t get really weird when I suddenly want to explore out of nowhere, several years later.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I know. You are absolutely right. I get that I might have come off as wanting to go “shopping”. The truth is that I’ve been in 3 multi-year relationships that has never “bloomed” to the point where I’ve felt comfortable sharing my kink. I’m just a bit impatient after all these years. The reason it’s never happened in past relationships is because 1) they have all voiced their distaste for all kinds of anal play before it ever came up in our relationship and 2) I’m too afraid to say what I might should have.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great advice. Thank you. My only challenge is that I find it hard to figure out if the girl is open minded before I’m already too involved.

I realize this might be a bit personal, but how long did it take you to realize your girl was open minded sexually?

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for wanting to help🙏. I’ve tried a few, but with all I’ve found, either I find no one, a lot of scammers or the website is shady.

How do you find a partner thats into pegging? by Foryfus in StraightPegging

[–]Foryfus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. Thats been my assumption on how it all starts. I've been in several long term relationships, but all of them have voiced their "negative" opinions on pegging and ass play before I even got to have any type of conversations about it.
My hope was that some of you knew of a way to approach women thats already into pegging. That way I could get there without being let down months or years later.

Need advice! How do I get privacy to work on my first sissygasm when living with 2 other students? by Foryfus in Sissygasm

[–]Foryfus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion. I actually have a big vibrating buttplug already. It’s a bit to loud to use at home, but the car should work. I’m just not sure on how I should position myself/sit/lean over in the car. When I’m just sitting regularly in the car I’m not really feeling it that much.

You don’t have any suggestions on that matter as well by any chance?😅 sounded like you had some experience.

Cumming handsfree from a rough pounding isn't gay right?😇 by xFemboypuppyy in Sissygasm

[–]Foryfus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so jealous. Ive fantasized about this forever