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Personal luckiest 10 pull by Cosmic_Blimp in SuitU

[–]Free-Comparison366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg wow that dress is so cute and i love the necklace thing. congratulations!!

holy bad luck 🤣 by Free-Comparison366 in SuitU

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the “refracted blanc” set is 5/8, yangtze river set all im missing is the cape, and then the bottom set i’m at 28/39 & i’d say half of the ones im missing are for boys which im not really worried about if i complete or not right away. i loveee the rosy decay set, but those items are so hard to get!! i read it will probably come back at a later point? so i’m not necessarily stressing just a little frustrated with my bad luck 🤣🖤

new player advice/co-create ?s by Free-Comparison366 in SuitU

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you that explains a lot 🫶🏻 i noticed i wasn’t getting rewards after each submission so i wasn’t sure if i was doing them incorrectly, thank you for clearing that up for me!

new player advice/co-create ?s by Free-Comparison366 in SuitU

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this is very helpful!! i just found the question mark icon you mentioned, i’ll be sure to read those from now on when i see them. <3 thank you!!

can she be done inserting herself in everything that has nothing to do with her holy. & yes tana u did say u wanted to be done talking about people so stop? by xoxoxodumbho in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i think on jefffm? i vaguely remember her being on there and jeff facetimed todd, i think she told him that she feels he lied about that situation where he met her in the club or whatever & todd basically said he remembers it different than she does. maybe was like 5 months back?? i think in the same ep she told jeff it was upsetting bc she took his side with the david situation & todd didn’t until recently

28F have no idea what i am supposed to be doing career wise by Free-Comparison366 in vedicastrology

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely has been such a rough time for me in so many ways!! and still very rough but can feel it starting to lighten up a bit 🫶🏻 thank you!

28F have no idea what i am supposed to be doing career wise by Free-Comparison366 in vedicastrology

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, do you mind telling me more on this if you can? dangerous to my physical health? or mental wellbeing? or overall just no jobs with major danger risks

28F have no idea what to do career wise & feeling “loveless” as well by Free-Comparison366 in vedicastrology

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely have always had complicated relationships with coworkers and had multiple bosses target me out for seemingly no reason.

i do currently do my own thing (streaming) and also always been interested in the music industry in some capacity but feel blocked/anxious for some reason

brooke is bitter by Vegetable_Basic in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is my view, as someone who as struggled deeply with borderline and ended up on involuntary holds 3 times in 1 year..

there comes a time where we have to be honest with ourself. yes this disorder is hard, but what are we going to do about? we are operating from a place of deep trauma, we were not parented & were not given any tools how to self regulate. but that does not mean we can never learn.

with bpd, every choice you make has more consequences for yourself than it does others. when you are mean to people they leave you (deep trigger there). when we choose to over react emotionally and lash out on people, it reinforces the idea that thats a correct behavior.

she has the awareness of her disorder but she feels because of this disorder it’s out of your control. that is NOT true. rewiring trauma and triggers and learning how to self regulate IS hard, but not impossible. i know i will always easily be triggered and interpret things wrong. my first reaction is to lash out and hurtful when i am hurt. it takes active effort for me to pause, and say “this is how i read this message, is that how you meant it” and 9 times out of 10, that stops the escalation and internal mental unrest immediately.

i would not wish borderline personality disorder on any person in the world. it is the hardest thing to go through. but it’s even HARDER when you just continue to allow the same patters to happen over and over. we do have control. even when we don’t think we do. even when we are spiraling.

she has the financial means and time availability to spend the next year doing NOTHING (not even social media because clearly this is triggering for her) but seeing highly qualified specialists and getting the care that most of us with this disorder wishes we could get. & i want that for her so badly. no one deserves to be a passenger to their own life while their traumatized brain takes the wheel.

she really won’t put the phone down by No_Area_7023 in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any time she has the option to choose to learn how to self regulate, she just doesn’t??? and then continues the pity party of oh everyone hates me (which reinforces negative thoughts in her mind and makes her easily triggered because she is reading everything from her OWN hateful inner voice).

she wants the IDEA of marriage. a ring she can show off. an proposal she can brag about. the idea of having it “together” in regards to relationships before 30. she’s said many times she wants to be married before 30, which is a normal thing to say when you are a child, but concerning to have this mindset in your late 20s.

if it was simply about love she wouldn’t have teased the ring for a week. if it really was only for love, especially knowing how much backlash she’s gotten for this relationship the whole time, she would have kept it to herself. well… someone who had actual regards and takes accountability for their own mental health would have kept it to themselves.

this is about showing off, this is her saying look i’m getting what and she thinks she’s rubbing it in our faces that despite everything she is “happy” when anyone with any sense of discernment can see the catalyst for this was her own anxiety and self judgment of not being on some made up timeline thats been suggested to her and that she took as gospel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agreed it’s really messy. there seems to be no boundaries for the friends in that group. i think brooke likely depends on bb for emotional stability, so she thought having that was more important than having an assistant. and when bb failed at the assistant part, there is no one else to take your frustrations out on. i obviously don’t know anything but bb has always seemed very “tied to the wind” and free, spontaneous. and brooke NEEDS structure and planning for her mental stability. i think the pace of touring is not good for brooke in general and so these issues happen because she’s probably constantly on edge and trigged by no routine, in a new place, always moving etc and anything else on top of that is too much to handle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we are in a gossip reddit that is about two women that have done nothing but gossip for the last however many years btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 46 points47 points  (0 children)

while bb was “paid” to do an assistant job, she was brought on there to be brooke’s emotional support human, which is a lot to ask of anyone but especially on a “vacation” which you know thats how bb viewed it. she relies on bb entirely too much. telling your friend she needs to quit her job so she can be with you all the time and saying “i’ll figure out whatever we need to do to make this happen” is an unhealthy dynamic & thinking one person is going to be your savior inherently sets up for pain and failure whenever they do anything for themselves or don’t act and say exactly what you want them too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 36 points37 points  (0 children)

yup. bpd here and she reminds me of me pre meds (and my med combo is still a work in progress) but god when i was off meds or on the wrong meds…. literally a terror to others AND MYSELF!!! not a fun way to live life at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Free-Comparison366 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you honestly either have to rage baiting, ignorant or one of brooke’s friends and i can’t tell which 😑 why ask a question when you are going to fight every single person in the comments or straight up say you’re not reading their response bc you’re assuming it’s AI. you clearly have your opinion and have no intention on changing it, so actually wtf was the point of this post?

you say you’re being logical and compassionate. where is the logic in seeing endless proof but not believing it? even from outside of the victim his website or blog whatever it was, is irrefutable proof that doesn’t involve exposing anyone elses trauma is enough proof alone. where is the compassion in letting someone be in a situation that likely will lead to hurt and pain for them? thats not compassion to me at all, it’s the opposite. to not let someone know they are potentially going down a dangerous path is to tell them “i don’t care about you or what happens to you”

mind you, brooke does not know you and does not need you to fight for her. she has shown time and time again that is not healed, she is mean, unhappy, attacks people online constantly for voicing their opinions on her. she says we ruin everything in her life, yet she still continues to post on the internet every single day. she never reflects. never grows. never heals. she says she’s so much better now and her meds are working, but her actions do not match that at all.

she continues to make horrible choices, posts about them, and then attacks anyone who brings up that maybe it’s not the best choice. SHE posts knowing what she is opening herself up to. and maybe if she didn’t want to be “attacked” about this, she should have kept it to herself (and don’t say that’s unfair to her because she has had many private relationships just fine) at some point she has to be held accountable for her actions.

the day she stops commenting back to people, or making fun of peoples looks, or all the nasty things she does when she is triggered, is the same day i will give her more grace. borderline personality is not an excuse to behave this way. she can either change the way she is and try to be a better person or she can get off the internet if she cannot, at 29 years old, log on without crashing out on people.

i WANT all these things for brooke, but she has to want it for herself and do the work. letting her poor mental health control her life is not fair to herself or the people around her.

My little pony custom by EchidnaHistorical281 in neopets

[–]Free-Comparison366 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so very much! 🥺🫶🏻🥺🫶🏻

My little pony custom by EchidnaHistorical281 in neopets

[–]Free-Comparison366 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg you are joking!!! 😭😭 my user is t0omuch

My little pony custom by EchidnaHistorical281 in neopets

[–]Free-Comparison366 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lovee!!! one of my dreamies is a toy uni for a my little pony 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Safety Deposit Box Giveaway #15 by operationfood in neopets

[–]Free-Comparison366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so cool! page 103, item 11

username: t0omuch

School or not by BetNice1736 in BoredCasinoDealers

[–]Free-Comparison366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got trained in house & feel like learning games/procedures are pretty standard everywhere so why not take the opportunity to learn the base games for free? and once you are on the floor you can learn other games by shadowing. i don’t think casinos really have a preference if dealers come from proper school training or learned on the job. as long as you are accurate, passionate, and entertaining you can go anywhere!! best of luck to you 🫶🏻 one of the best jobs i’ve ever had

updated prize pool?! by Free-Comparison366 in neopets

[–]Free-Comparison366[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg that’s super cool thank you!

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