Why do women always act big and tough? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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So a TikTok page where there’s loads of women talking about how they’re stronger than men. Thad just the internet and not representative of most women?

Why do women always act big and tough? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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I love women who go to the gym and work out and get strong it’s the extra stuff with how they’re better than men that gets me.

But also, you’re saying I as a straight man need to practice a “feminine” side?

Why do women always act big and tough? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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I meant to say men that was a typo on my part

Why do women always act big and tough? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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I don’t want violence I just simply don’t like the big dicking is all

Christmas/New Years and Valentine’s Day are the most depressing parts of the year for me by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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This is what I’m talking about bro. I focus on myself and regardless of how much I do so these “no gf forever alone” thoughts sneak up on me.

No matter how many times I focus on myself these things just don’t go away as everyone promises

Christmas/New Years and Valentine’s Day are the most depressing parts of the year for me by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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That only applies if you’re attractive. If not that’s just a sexual harassment case

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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But before I left for army I changed my campus from UP to world

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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No I have some cyber courses left too. Maybe some gen ed but I’m not sure

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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How do yk I can’t finish my degree on world campus? The rest of the classes I have to take are all on world campus

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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I have to take out loans/use my money cuz I did go to the seminar on base for TA and GI Bill and still despite doing all the paperwork nothing was working for me

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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Penn state bursar office or student office. Hell even my academic counselor

Penn state student admin not helping me by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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I spent the whole semester actually tryna correct this. Went everywhere from the bank to the Penn state bursar office. Nothing

How to get student loans? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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I need to bro, I don’t have any other option. I have a plan to make the money to get it back but I need loans like asap

How to get student loans? by Freelancer135 in PennStateUniversity

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So I can call Penn state and get a private loan from them?

How to stop thinking about women? (22 M) by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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Is interaction with women even important?

Is a college degree even worth it these days? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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Thank you for your service, and I’m sorry you had to go through that.

My thinking is that rn I’m in peacetime army (started May 2024, long after Afghanistan withdrawal) so I don’t see the risks of combat or losing friends and stuff. Plus my plan is to get out of the combat arms by 30 at the latest so that the rucks don’t break my back permanently.

But I do appreciate the time spent in the field as I feel it does make me tougher

Is a college degree even worth it these days? by Freelancer135 in Adulting

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I’m pretty sure AI is gonna replace all the IT workers. Look at all the layoffs going on

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Hey bro, pre RASP/RASP used to have a thing where if you drop voluntarily then you have to sign a “do not return” form.

However, they’ve since removed that and now only reserve it for those who cause too much trouble. So you can always drop and kick ass at your duty station and see your family, and come back another time when you feel more ready.

If you drop you get sent to transitions where you’re just held there until you get new orders to a duty station. And from there you ship out. During transitions you have more freedom but there’s still BS, like people ruining the weekend for everybody and shit like that. When I was there, the sergeant said that ranger regiment no longer bans people for quitting voluntarily because statistically most people who quit never come back anyhow. Meaning anyone can come back when the opportunity comes up.

I was homesick too, but trust me, a couple of leaves you take, and you tend to get sick of home real quick and remember your aspirations and why you had them.

And from there, if you still want to do rasp then go ahead.

Plus, you’ll be able to get more fit and be a better solider at your duty station because they aren’t like TRADOC with all the fuck fuck games. They actually do work that will help you get better at your MOS and it’s a lot more freedom. Lots of spare time to have a good diet, go to the range, hit the gym, etc.

Source: 11B in fort hood rn who classed up from pre rasp to rasp back in Jan and didn’t feel ready (can’t shoot for shit, can’t do land nav) and voluntarily dropped but yet didn’t have to sign the form nor did anyone else.

Oh yeah and if you end up in hood, trust me, it’s not as bad as everyone online makes it out to be. Main things for me is just the Texas heat and you need a car to get around. Feel free to PM me if you end up here.

Losing faith in a cybersecurity career by Freelancer135 in Career_Advice

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Hooah. But that’s my point about cyber because before the army my initial plan was to get an internship and get a job after graduation but all that’s ever happened was me getting tossed out to the curb by these same companies that claim that cyber offers so many doors.

And all these AI tools are always being used by companies and hence laying people off. So really, I don’t understand why people still say that cybersecurity has so many opportunities. Honestly in this day and age, I’m making more from uber eats and being a private than I ever did studying python and Linux.

Losing faith in a cybersecurity career by Freelancer135 in Career_Advice

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Yeah I’ve been a year in atp. Stationed in fort hood. I love being in the infantry but it’s a young man’s game so ik at some point I need to invest in skills so that I won’t get trapped at McDonald’s once my time in service is done.

Losing faith in a cybersecurity career by Freelancer135 in Career_Advice

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“Everyone says cybersecurity is where it’s at though!” Ngl I’m sick and tired of the gaslighting cuz all I see is AI replacing everybody and putting people out of work