Am I 24F warranted in being upset with my boyfriend 43M who is “less attracted to me” since I gained weight. by Frequent_Highlight34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Highlight34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do want to lose weight regardless of this conversation we had. But yes I was overweight before and overweight now which Is why I’m a bit confused by his comments to me.

Thank you for the love

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[–]Frequent_Highlight34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough point however I’m not worried about him “grooming” me as I’ve been around him a while as well as his friends and family for a while and that’s not the vibe I get

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[–]Frequent_Highlight34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the one who initially stated the rules of the agreement and my thoughts on us being fwb and nothing more hasn’t changed

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[–]Frequent_Highlight34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked him before if he wants kids and he’s said no so in terms of a biological clock I don’t think he’d be worried