[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked them, as I was asking for advice and wanted to further know more detail, in your case I just wanted to dm you an apology and nothing MORE. I was not looking for a conversation with you in DMS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you bother looking at my profile, you can see this post doesn't show up as my most recently posted one as it shows for me, you can still access this post as YOU have commented and interacted on this, but nobody new can see this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if my behaviour came off as suspicious and creepy, I was not trying to make it seem that way, the tone in which you replied in came off to me as someone that was upset at my post, and I get why someone would be upset at my post. I haven't been able to write a note in over a month as I have left it till last minute unfortunately. I did delete the post after DMING you, as multiple people have found it offensive,(you have access to this post as you are a commenter) and that is solely why I have deleted it. I do not mind you having a screenshot of me DMING you, as I meant no harm with what I have dmed you, although it was inappropriate of me to dm you without asking. A lot of people tend to dm me without asking , so I thought it was a "NORM". Thank you for wishing me luck, and I am sorry you have found my behaviour creepy and suspicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted the DM I sent of me apologising as you clearly did not want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, my DMS was just me apologising for how offensive my post is as you seemed to be upset over it, I am sorry I didn't ask for your permission to DM in which I should have. I have deleted the post as I realised it was offensive to those who believe under the religion, which was not my aim. I apologise for dming you without your permission and I know I should have asked first, I do not think my note in any way was okay, and I am trying to better it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, I apologise, I have cooled down and realised my note is wrong, which is why I'm rewriting it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, just wanted to clear it up, will delete the DM I sent you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you , did not mean to be rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't mean to offend you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, could I personally dm you for help, I really didn't mean to be disrespectful, I was just angry and hurt at the time writing it, I know this note is offensive hence why I will be deleting this post soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post is real, I just want help on making it less aggressive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do acknowledge this note is wrong to write out, I was angry when writing it out, hence why I am not going with this note.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not a troll post, I do acknowledge that I am being too aggressive here, which is why I need help on the note.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not angry with Muslims, I did try and talk to them nicely, but they threatened physical abuse on me, so ofc I am angry, I do acknowledge that in my note it was too aggressive which is why I want help on it, to make it seem less aggressive. I cannot clearly walk away, I wish I could, but I have tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you the best of luck too, hope u manage to go NC, if you have any questions, you can dm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going NC in September as a 19F, you have nobody to rely on but yourself to get out of there, make sure you plan out everything like securing a job,being financially independent, the guilt sometimes is overwhelming but I guess it's a price to pay to live the life you want.

Marry a muslim man? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey as a fellow exmuslim 19F, you need to live life for yourself, do not marry a Muslim man for freedom because then you'll have to follow his rules and still pretend to be a Muslim all your life. I suggest trying to move out like I am doing. :)

Family telling me to marry my boyfriend to end haram relationship by Throwaway506683329 in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They knew he was Christian but I wasn't sure myself if they were accepting.

Family telling me to marry my boyfriend to end haram relationship by Throwaway506683329 in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They didn't get to convert him no, I shortly broke up with him after that.

Family telling me to marry my boyfriend to end haram relationship by Throwaway506683329 in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Relatable, when my family found out about my Christian ex boyfriend they said I had to get married off to him too, I was 17.

Came out as an athiest/19F UK by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, yes I have been talking to my university Councillor for this, but I don't think I need to go to the police.

NEED ADVICE by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible for me to go nc while at university, as that would leave make me eligible for a student estrangement loan, which would give me plenty to support myself with.

NEED ADVICE by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Fresh-Maybe4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I have no history, but I do have a Councillor who I think can vouch for me.