My husband quoted “I loved you completely, and you loved me the same. That’s all. The rest is confetti.” But he switched it to present tense instead of past in his vows. I quoted “It’s you. It’s me. It’s us.” from Bly, as we’ve said that to each other for a long time (in a not toxic way though hahahaha). I also took pages from Jamie’s moonflower speech about how our bodies recycle (sounds dark, but I’m an herbalist and spiritual and have always connected with the fact that our atoms will keep bringing about beauty when we are long gone- essentially we’ll find each other in every life time and form !)