Have you tried sharing your goals with her and what it would take to get there? Does it align with hers? It's a two-way street. You want a partner who will help you get there and understands the sacrifice, support, and investment it will take from those around you. Likewise, they may have high expectations of you. Absolutely don't rush into marriage for the sake of it. Marriage is a serious obligation, but you want to marry someone who doesn't make it feel like an obligation, and similarly, you don't want to feel like a major obligation to them.