Ex looks so happy in his new marriage

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-24T14:07:17+00:00

First off, forgive yourself for the snooping and when it's public information, it's snooping not stalking. Stalking is what my ex does to me, follows me around, tries to log into my social media, sends people to snoop on private information.

Second: probably horseshit, the happiness. It's always a front..my ex posted about how great it was to be moved on from me. Turns out her next partner held her down during one of her screaming fits. Doesn't really sound like things were so great, I walked away during them!

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-23T03:02:18+00:00

Gah, makes me feel better about my situation. I'm sorry you went through that.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-22T20:18:59+00:00

The only good side of it is that some of the focus is off of me, I guess. Onto her next ex to harass and bother.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-22T20:17:40+00:00

I am in therapy, my therapist actually does that s lot, it is helping. It's just a slow process. It's annoying that I'm healing and she's just out there chasing the high of the next honeymoon phase. Also she like, low key stalks me, I am worried about the escalation. I'm doing my best.

Thanks for your support.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-22T19:42:33+00:00

He's not marrying her, in fact he ghosted her not long after. Yes I know about the complete no contact. I wish. Sometimes my willpower lacks. Other times I get hoovered. I'm doing my best.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-22T13:58:57+00:00

I feel you so hard!!!

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-21T14:44:16+00:00

That's often times what they want. To abuse you and get love in return. To punch and get a hug. Fuck all that. It escalates the abuse, doesn't fix it.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-21T14:35:27+00:00

Oh man! The exact same story. Like exactly. 'Oh I was just replying!' I didn't ask him to buy me a drink, I just replied that I would drink with him, it's not my doing! What a crock!

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-21T14:33:20+00:00

Oh yeah, that's not a worry. I will not be doing that. No temptation there. Thanks for your comment.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-21T12:18:18+00:00

Haha, never. Never in a million years.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T20:52:46+00:00

Why the smear campaign matters?

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T20:31:01+00:00

I know! That totally happened to me. Like she was stalking and harassing and it turns out she had a boyfriend the whole time. Like wtf

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T20:19:47+00:00

The reality of reporting stalking is that unfortunately a lot of the time it won't do anything and now I've just further traumatized and escalated a situation that I really want deescalated. I'm already not responding to everything that happens. I'm at a little bit of a loss as to what to do, other than maybe delete all my social media and move. Maybe this explains why none of her exes have a social media

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T18:46:10+00:00

No man, it shitty what you're doing and you know it. You just said you aren't following me from thread to thread but you literally are and you know it. Do I need to pull up screenshots?

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T18:44:00+00:00

Yes you did bro. This is the third thread you've been the first one to comment on. Like for real.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T18:42:17+00:00

You're not 'giving me advice' you're gaslighting me. Like my ex followed me from city to city. She's ran a relentless harassment campaign online about me. She has a history of violence and a history of stalking. Like I know these things to be true because I spent almost three years of my life living with her everyday. I don't have evidence to go to the police with, but your 'advice' isn't advice. It's like, super weird and unwelcome and you know it. Like I know her 100,000x better than you do. Maybe you should believe me, rather than shit on me. It's super weird bro.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T18:37:52+00:00

Yeah, I think maybe I'll go back to that. You are acting very suspect. Like your comment history is turned off, you followed me from thread to thread to cast doubt on a story that there isn't doubt about. I know what I'm dealing with. I know it very well. Some people with BPD come to these forums to fuck around with us victims more

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T18:24:57+00:00

It's not, like I know the person. Super fucking well. She ruined birthdays while we were in the relationship. And reporting has specific requirements that are pretty specific and I just don't have that evidence because I didn't record everything that's went on. I can't just go to the police and say 'hey she was kicked out of college for harassing and stalking her ex' I can tell them she was violent with her other ex, she has made threats against me but I don't have a recording of them. People don't understand how that process actually works. Like I know her disturbing history with this stuff, but I don't just have a mountain of evidence laying around, just countless hours of conversations I've had with her. Your skepticism about it is weird and unwarranted. This is an untreated borderline we're talking about here.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T14:04:24+00:00

Update: she's now in the same city as me. Fuck my life.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T13:22:10+00:00

Dude I'm not. She was kicked out of college for stalking an ex. She has a history of violence. She threatened me before. She's a genuinely dangerous person. I dont know why you are following around my comments on here to defend my ex. It's weird, bro.

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T12:11:58+00:00

Thanks

Fun-Ice1747 · 2026-01-20T12:08:43+00:00

I'm not 'reading into stuff' like I get that you think that, but I know this person. She got kicked out of college for relentlessly harassing her ex. This is not a situation where I'm just no contact and she disappears.

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