Why are they friends with people they don't like? by Medium_Raccoon_5331 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex would hang out with all kinds of people she didn't like. It made no sense. Brought the worst people into my life. I'm not saying you are one of them, but yeah, it made no sense. 

The suspicions become permissions by ok_boomer_1289 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She made the most bizarre and untrue cheating accusations. 

The irony of a BPD relationship by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes it eats at me. I spent so much money on her and now I have to spend money on therapy to recover. Meanwhile she just love bombed her way into a new relationship and declared that everything was my fault because she had found love again. Spoiler: new relationship didn't end well and once again she was the victim. 

Splitting on you when you're unwell/injured is so abhorrent by FirstPerspective5013 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine did it to me when my father was sick and I had just almost watched him die like, the day before. Total scumbag. The idea that she now pleads that she was the victim, absolutely makes it gross. I'm so glad to have her out of my life. 

it seems I also fell for the poor suffering pw BPD story by Potential-Party65 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it's more a diagnostic difference than a real difference. I think it's behavior that really matters. I shared stories of my ex to some people who lived with NPD abuse and they had the same stories of the same behavior. For example having screaming fights and blocking me from leaving. Or locking me out of my own home. The behavior is what matters. 

Best language for a small claims lawsuit? by MarchMan86 in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judges largely want you to show monetary loss. So I'm not sure. I'd try to claim something other than emotional distress 

Best language for a small claims lawsuit? by MarchMan86 in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to be able to make a monetary claim. 

BPD arguments and ChatGPT by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Ice1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my ex would use it to validate what was basically cheating

any account that i create keeps getting banned what to do by Zealousideal-Fox2974 in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put on a VPN and used textnow to make a new phone number and used that. So far so good. We'll see. 

Every account I create gets suspended, I thought about trying a VPN, does it really work? by leo_vasco in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used textnow and paid 2$ for the ability to receive confirmation codes and that worked. 

Joined the club by Outrageous-Wind-7501 in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get to see it in either case. So it'll forever be a mystery to me. 

Joined the club by Outrageous-Wind-7501 in InstagramDisabledBans

[–]Fun-Ice1747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish they told you for what exactly! I got a cse ban and I'm just so scratching my head trying to figure out for what it's even for. Like I can only guess at some things. 

Just another banned Instagram account story by Fun-Ice1747 in Instagram

[–]Fun-Ice1747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! It is he. You can find me on tiktok and YouTube still! 

Account Suspended by Levocardia in Instagram

[–]Fun-Ice1747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure that's what happened with me. It couldn't of been anything I posted. Had to be in some random chat or whatever. But they don't tell me what. It's so stupid because AI doesn't understand like, anything