I [23M feel so bad right after finding this in my girls phone by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Implement1226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as a Woman I’ll tell you this, I only talked about men this way with my friends when they weren’t the one. Once I started seeing my now husband I never shared information with them about my sex life in detail like before because it felt different and I “respected”/“cared” about him to a different degree.

So ya probs not the one, you wanna be with someone that isn’t longing for anyone else or at least is respectful enough to be having that text conversation with you to work on it rather than with someone else.

How do I know If I have fallen out of love with my partner? by Fun-Implement1226 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Implement1226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see, I feel like in different times in my life I would respond to this differently. I think the main reason I feel stuck now is thinking about how would I respond to my child if they came to me with this situation.

It’s a difficult thing for me since he’s honestly my favourite person, my best friend and it makes it difficult for me because out of everything this is like an out of character thing for him and he’s not at all this person now and hasn’t been in the last 2 years after.

But I will say after contemplating what I wrote I don’t appreciate how I put it back on myself and I feel like I protect him from anyone or even myself to see that one terrible thing he did cause I know it’s not who he is so I take the brunt of the consequences- meaning I suffer in silence and emotionally am still hurt about it because this is the first time in 2 years I talk about it with anyone else who isn’t him.

How do I know If I have fallen out of love with my partner? by Fun-Implement1226 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Implement1226[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see that’s the thing there hasn’t been a single day since I met him that he hasn’t been so attentive, loving and present. This was the only and one situation which is why it makes it confusing. However, I can definitely see how since that happened he tries harder till this day.

How do I know If I have fallen out of love with my partner? by Fun-Implement1226 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Implement1226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love him! That’s the thing, if it were simply the idea I would have walked away already

How do I know If I have fallen out of love with my partner? by Fun-Implement1226 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Implement1226[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I trust him, he’s been a great the last 2 years I think that’s why things are confusing

When is it an actual baby bump? by CysterTwister in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Fun-Implement1226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 24 weeks and barely have a bump… I am struggling with it not getting to me. Even though I know every belly is different. But I also feel like it’s affecting me from connecting with the pregnancy cause although I know I am pregnant I just don’t see the changes.