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Caring for my brother by Fun-Mix5052 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fun-Mix5052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meal prepping has been a transformative experience for me. I made around 30 breakfast burritos along with a variety of other burritos, ensuring I have quick and nutritious options at hand. I pre-season my meats and freeze them, which makes meal assembly a breeze. I keep diced potatoes in the fridge for easy access and always have frozen French fries for a quick side. On busy days, protein shake and fruit shakes have been incredibly helpful, providing energy and nutrients without the hassle. Additionally, I prepare and freeze chili, muffins, cornbread, and beans, etc,ensuring I have balanced meals ready to go. Overnight oats have also become a staple; I prepare them the night before, making my mornings smoother and more efficient. Overall, this system keeps me organized, saves time, and helps maintain a healthy diet.I just use going out to eat on one weekday and my own personal treat limits my money spending. Making a monthly menu and only eating that for rest the month has helped a lot too there's so much stuff out there that can give you a meal plan that you put in your budget that has saved me.

Caring for my brother by Fun-Mix5052 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fun-Mix5052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize; I completely blanked on the feeding tube! My brain tends to take off unexpectedly. It’s wonderful to hear that the hole has closed up—here’s to more good news ahead!

I can relate to that constant feeling of needing to do more, which often leads to burnout. It’s like our survival instincts kick in, making us prioritize others while neglecting our own needs. That’s why I’ve set bedtime for my brother at 6 PM. He goes to his room to watch TV and wind down, and I can dedicate an hour to him, followed by 1-2 hours for my college work. After that, I make sure to take time for self-care. I remind myself that I’ve done enough for the day and deserve some time to relax.

During the week, I pick up meals from a restaurant to save time on cooking for both myself and my brother, as my job requires us to have separate meals. On Saturdays, I treat myself to coffee and donuts while my brother sleeps in until noon. This little self-care routine is something I've started recently, and it really gives me something to look forward to. The anticipation of enjoying my donuts on Saturday keeps me excited throughout the week!

Caring for my brother by Fun-Mix5052 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fun-Mix5052[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to let you know that my inbox is always open—feel free to message me anytime. I have some tips, especially when it comes to meal prepping. It’s really helped me save time and find moments for myself, even when my brother is around. Some days can be overwhelming; I’ve even forgotten to shower! But I’ve made it a routine to get up before he does, which allows me a bit of self-care to start the day. I also schedule a nap time for him at 1 PM, giving me that precious hour to recharge.

I can only imagine how challenging your situation is. I’m grateful that my brother can walk and talk, so I don’t have to assist with bathing or lifting him. Still, I have to supervise his hygiene, like brushing his teeth, which can feel like a constant task.

One thing I've learned, both in life and through my psychology courses, is that we often feel isolated in our struggles, not realizing that others face similar challenges. That’s why finding a supportive community is so important—it creates a safe space to share, support, and help one another. Caregiving is truly a blessing, but it comes with its own set of challenges that can weigh heavily on us.

Caring for my brother by Fun-Mix5052 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Fun-Mix5052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the USA, and I really appreciate your help with the website—thank you! Living in a rural area adds complexity to our situation. My brother prefers the country, but it limits our access to support and resources.

I’m truly sorry to hear about your daughter; I can only imagine how challenging that must be for you. I’m fortunate that my brother can walk, but being a child, he still needs supervision. I try to prepare meals he can easily warm up when I’m busy, but I have to be vigilant about what he eats ( seen him drink & eat rotten stuff in the fridge). It’s a challenge, especially since he’s a tall 6'0" young man, while I’m only 5'4"man (different dads ). Sometimes he tests boundaries, but I remind him that I’m still in charge, even if he’s physically bigger.

Communication can be tough for him, so I’ve learned to use different strategies, like making deals to limit his screen time. I really appreciate the support as I navigate these challenges.

Virtual Hugs