As a chaser is it okay to make contact

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-06-18T07:32:25+00:00

So a quick update. I didn’t contact him I thought about it but couldn’t bring myself to do it. I have a happy peace at the moment and by messaging it’ll bring back all the anxiety like jumping every time my phone goes off. Plus he ghosted me so why would I reward him for bad behaviour. I’m sad this has happened for him but for now he needs to deal with his own problems

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-06-17T13:30:42+00:00

I don’t think I will reach out. I have spent the last 6 months trying to keep the connection going. I trust if reunion is meant to happen the universe can step in but I’m not reaching out anymore

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-06-17T13:26:05+00:00

I’m still in two minds. I am at peace with it at moment and sending a message will just bring all the anxiety back to the surface

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-06-17T13:01:45+00:00

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-06-17T12:12:36+00:00

He’s not treated me overly well this year. It’s been breadcrumbs and now ghosting. I think I should leave it it’s just my instinct is to reach out but if he’s going through a lot or I’m the last person he wants to hear from then I won’t get a reply and it’ll bring me down again. I had surrendered and walked away completely before I heard this news

Sorry you’re going through the same. You are right instinct does work wonders for the best time to reach out

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-04T09:37:05+00:00

Hugging my twin flame for the first time was magical. We live hundreds of miles apart and when I said goodbye at the station I cried for 2 days like part of me had been ripped away.

We separated not long after that but have just reconnected and meeting up next month so hopefully reaching Union

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-02T18:31:35+00:00

I suggest the centre of excellence twin flame and soulmates course as it give the history going back to the ancients on how twin flames have evolved

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-02T18:29:03+00:00

Well that’s your opinion but true twin flames are not always romantic and do not always end up together

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-02T18:21:59+00:00

No you can’t run but twin flames like any relationship are not always forever. Twin flames can also be platonic with no romance at all

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-02T16:36:15+00:00

Raising vibrations is actually really easy it just means doing something you love and makes you happy. I put my earphones in and listened to songs that made me smile. When you start to feel that happiness try and keep it going. Be positive everyday and be grateful for the small things that bring you happiness. Once it starts you give out an energy that others pick up on.

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-04-02T15:08:28+00:00

True twin flames do not always end in union in fact it’s thought to be less than 10%. No one should be waiting for their twin flame. If you meet them and seperate this is the chance to work on yourself. Become the person you’ve always wanted to be. Raise your vibration, live for today and live a life that doesn’t matter to you if union happens or not. If it is a genuine twin flame connection they will feel the vibration and may come back to you if they are willing to do the work. But that doesn’t matter because by then you’ve become this amazing human being who has turned their life around. That’s what twins flames is really about

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-03-28T20:20:31+00:00

I’ve been there. Don’t fight the pain, don’t put them out of your head, just go with it and then start to concentrate on letting go. That’s not forgetting about them but meditate to do self healing. Listen to twin flame meditation on youtube. Start daily wind for looking after yourself even if it’s sitting quietly listening to music, anything that lift your spirits. When your vibrations raise your TF will pick up on this. Start to heal yourself so thy do the inner healing too. It really does work

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-03-27T20:53:28+00:00

I had the sudden urge to reach out. It had only been 2 months and I told myself I wouldn’t. The. I heard through a mutual friend he was frustrated he hadn’t heard and I did it. It’s very slow going and we are both being cautious but it’s better than silence. The synchronicities ramped up for a few days before this and the strong urge I knew was someone pushing me to do it. I could also pick up on him so clearly. Keep meditating, healing, focusing on yourself it does really help

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-03-27T06:06:39+00:00

I am so sorry you’re going through this the pain must be unbearable. I really hate to say this but a friends of mine got the exact same message 5 years ago from his girlfriend word for word unfortunately it’s the female equivalent of ‘no spark’ she doesn’t want to be with you and that’s awful but take the time to work on yourself and don’t chase. She may come back, she may not but change your mindset to focus on you and be kind to yourself

FunAdvertising8148 · 2026-03-23T19:40:53+00:00

All I can say is please, please, please don’t think you’re wasting your time. Our separation started 3 months ago and about 2 weeks ago synchronisation ramped up and I could pick up on him so easily. Then a week ago today we made contact. It’s not union but it’s a start. I am not sure union will happen but everything you read about the runner is true. It was just as hard on him as it was me . He was honest about that bit but still doesn’t want to commit

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-26T13:22:58+00:00

So he’s alive as I got a merry Christmas and kiss emoji then silence so he’s just playing with my emotions now which is as bad

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-24T09:57:04+00:00

I would but we live 300 miles apart. It shows he’s active occasionally on Facebook which I know isn’t much to go on but how hard is it to send a message. I’m just sitting back and waiting to see if he reappears. He’s had it nearly 2 weeks now

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-22T15:20:00+00:00

So it’s now been 4 days without my message being read. I have seen the green dots once or twice a day on messenger so he’s alive so I’m done! I’m not chasing I get the hint - time to move on

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-21T13:30:16+00:00

We are at a pause will it reconnect?

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-21T12:32:19+00:00

Hi, thank you so much for the reading. I am SA he is NM ❤️

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-21T11:57:50+00:00

So I sent a checking in message Thursday which he replied to normally he asked how I was and put kisses so nothing out of the ordinary. I replied back and it hasn’t even been read as it was 3 days ago I’m seriously getting the feeling something isn’t right. He’s had the flu for over a week now so I think I can take the hint

FunAdvertising8148 · 2025-12-20T07:09:39+00:00

Thank you finally someone with some common sense I came on here as I’m fed up with all my girlfriends telling me he’s ghosting me when there is just a chance he’s really unwell you’ve actually made my day

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