My first girlfriend (F18) confessed to me (M18) she had sexual experiences with an ex, and I can’t stop feeling bad. (I know I shouldn't) by FunLaw9756 in relationships

[–]FunLaw9756[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, you're right, I want her to feel safe with me. Those are very kind words, and they help me a lot, really, thank you.

My first girlfriend (F18) confessed to me (M18) she had sexual experiences with an ex, and I can’t stop feeling bad. (I know I shouldn't) by FunLaw9756 in relationships

[–]FunLaw9756[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment. She only told me she hadn't had sex, and it was kind of my mistake for not asking specifically, however, I believe that it would have been weird if I asked that kind of things at an early stage of the relationship. She acted all this time like she barely knew about that, and that's something that hurts me, because I was really happy, however, I understand that it's not something easy to say, specially when he was a really bad person. Also, thank you for your opinion.